Unseen Child

Please read!!! It's Urgent!!!

2011-10-09T11:18:00.000-07:00

This morning I received this e-mail with the harsh reality that we need funds for Shannon's Hope Maternity Home as soon as possible or it is in danger of closing. I ask you to look at the eyes of these babies....please don't ignore them...I cry at the thought of asking these woman to go back to the streets because I know that their is a possibility that some mothers might be forced to put themselves in to the hands of an abuse man to keep a roof over their child's head. Or worse they will go into other shelters in which they can only be there from 6:00pm to 6:00am and then they are forced to walk the streets with a small newborn and perhaps even a small child.

LeAnn Rimes has donated over $5,000.00 towards homeless mothers in less than 3 months. There are no words to express our appreciation for all she has done and continues to do through the eBay account: http://myworld.ebay.com/unseenchildfoundation/ I'm going to trust God that it is okay to ask this question...I would like to ask ALL my celebrity buddies to give as LeAnn has given! If you can please help by starting a campaign to help meet or match LeAnn's donation? Help us keep Shannon's Hope open! It has been a maternity home for homeless mothers for 30 years!!!! I cannot ask these mothers to pack up their belongings and leave the home that was to keep them out of the cold this winter.... Here's the letter I received....

Dear Friends,
Shannon's Hope Maternity Home currently has an immediate need for financial contributions of any size. Please go to their website at www.shannonshope.org They process their donations through PayPal or you can send the donation directly to their address:
Shannons Hope; PO Box 1477; Wheat Ridge, CO 80034.
No contribution is too small, and every amount will help. Please know that your contribution is tax deductible as it is a 501(c)3 organization. You may call their phone number (303) 480-5433
(LIFE). This is a critical time for the 13 homeless, and pregnant women and their children to continue living in a safe, secure, and loving home. Please do what you can NOW to help them!! Bless You Everyone!

Here is Shannon's Hope Maternity Home!
http://www.shannonshope.org/

Never forget the men and women we lost on September 11, 2001

2011-09-11T11:07:00.000-07:00

There is a feeling of sadness still after many years...Tell me I'm not alone feeling the darkness of that day.....
Please tell me your experiences of September 11,2001 when America was attacked by leaving comments below!....Here's a excerpt from my book remembering that horrific day!

"Looking Through the Eyes of an Unseen Child"...many were unseen that day 10 years ago....let us never forget them....:

[Chapter 1
It was 3:00am, the morning of September 11, 2003. The flashing lights from my clock lit the room. It was too early to be awake...a heavy sick feeling rested in my stomach...Was it the memory of my husband's family, and the friends they lost this day, two years ago....? Or could it be that this day held something even more frightening...? My mind drifted back....
My husband was born and raised in New York before he traveled out west to attend the Bible College where we met, in the early 1980's. We were married shortly thereafter. The mid-west became our home, and New York City was where my new in-laws lived. After twenty years, I felt like I was part of this large family and New York was my favorite place to visit, with so much love and happy memories. Every visit meant an incredible view of the Twin Towers from my in-laws window. The same view shared by so many people on their way to work everyday, each with a different face, and a different story to tell. The morning of the attack seemed like any other morning. I was in my home switching the channels on the television when, in a flash, fear filled the air. A plane had hit one tower, and within minutes, another plane went soaring through its twin. Instantly, a blanket of confusion and grief covered the United States.

Knowing that my brother-in-law worked as a New York City police officer, the reality that his life could be in danger caused my family panic. He managed a brief phone call to assure us that he was alive, but as the phone went dead seconds late, I felt my life slipping. I was losing all my happy memories and the only past I had chosen to tell my children. As the day went by, it felt like weeks. Once again, death was moments away from those I loved.

The day that America lost so many lives reminded me of my loss also, the loss of my own childhood and the reality of the dark cavity that rested within me. I was no longer able to forget my childhood and to tell only the stories of my life in New york City. Now, this incredible city would be another tragedy from which I must run. As I lay in bed, I closed my eyes tightly and curled up, wanting to forget about the huge dark cloud and the belief that there was nowhere to hide from danger.] End of excerpt....

Sending much love and prayers to my brother-in-law Seargent Mark Albertsen NYPD and his family today! It was a day that changed history...but, also a day that changed my brother-in-law and the Albertsen family forever!

Praying for my hubbies friend the late NYC Fireman - Paul Gills family...
....and all families that lost a loved one on that day 10 years ago on September 11, 2001...
To the lost: You are not forgotten!
To the living: You are in our prayers!
God bless you all!
~Diana Joy~

"Give" by LeAnn Rimes

2011-07-21T17:24:00.000-07:00

Everyone support LeAnn Rimes and go to http://www.leannrimesworld.com/give and tell her how much she has GIVEN to you or inspired you to GIVE to others!!!!

Here's my post to LeAnn on the site:
LeAnn always talks about her fans and all the wonderful things they do...well, I want to make people aware of what a HUGE impact she has had on the homeless families here in Denver, Colorado. LeAnn inspires me every day to continue to GIVE to the homeless and get kids off the streets.

My name is Diana Joy and I am the CEO of the Unseen Child Foundation. I have been helping the homeless here in Denver for almost 30 years. I am writing on here to let others know that me and my team were able to help more mothers with LeAnn's help. Her donations are helping feed, clothe and educate the homeless in Denver so that the cycle of homelessness, poverty and child abuse can be stopped!

LeAnn GIVES to so many people with such UNCONDITIONAL love, not expecting anything in return. The song "Give" is in my eyes just an example of how LeAnn lives every day! Love you LeAnn!!!

Here's the information again!! *wink* *wink*
Support LeAnn Rimes and go to http://www.leannrimesworld.com/give and tell her how much she has GIVEN to you or inspired you to GIVE to others!!!!

Picture designed by LeAnn Rimes friend Daniel Galvan

LEANN RIMES GIVES WITH HER HEART!

2011-07-10T20:59:00.000-07:00

FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE:
LeAnn Rimes put's her talent and celebrity recognition behind raising money to stop child abuse and national attention, to the Unseen Child Foundation of Denver Colorado!!
Own a piece of Country Music History and help stop the cycle of poverty, homelessness and abuse.
The Unseen Child Foundation is proud to announce the auction of LeAnn Rimes’ items to make a difference in the eyes of an unseen child.
LeAnn Rimes has been a supporter of the Unseen Child Foundation Clothing Bank/Food bank since 2010. She has donated a large amount of items to help the Unseen Child Foundation reach out to the Denver community.

In the last year the Unseen Child Foundation and Shannon’s Hope have partnered to give the community not only a clothing bank and food bank, but now also a Shelter for young mothers to find safety from domestic violence, child abuse or from being homeless.

By purchasing even one item you will be standing beside LeAnn Rimes to stop the cycle of abuse! One hundred percent of all items auctioned will go to funding a Safe House and Clothing Bank!

Through your donation you too will be that one person to make a difference in the eyes of a child.

To bid on the items go to:

http://myworld.ebay.com/unseenchildfoundation/

Thanks so much for your support!!!
God bless!!
Diana Joy

Thanks LeAnn Rimes for all your support!!!

2011-07-02T17:02:00.000-07:00

Thank you so much LeAnn Rimes for all your support!!! Here is a radio interview that was sent to me last week. It was done by Bob TV: Link: http://www.bob949.com/pages/bobtv.html?feed=287091&article=8749130
Stay tune peeps to see a video and hear LeAnn's newest song!! Writing another post this week...keep checking in! *wink*

The Unseen Children need you now!!!! Please help!!!

2011-05-24T19:57:00.001-07:00

The latest news!!!
Well I am proud to announce that the Unseen Child Foundation is partnering up with Shannon's Hope Maternity home for homeless moms! I was so sad to hear that it was about to close due to funding. The founder came to me and asked if I could help....ARE YOU KIDDING ME!?! Of course we will help!! We can't have one of the most valuable homes in Colorado close due to funding! Shannon's Hope has been going strong for 30 years and to have it shut down now is a tragedy!!!
It was two weeks ago that Leslie Pottebam (Founder of Shannon's Hope) approached me. Since that day I have not stopped telling the world about how important it is that we as a society keep this home open. The young women in the shelter have now become my family! The Unseen Child Foundation is determined to make these moms seen!

Here is the Mission Statement for the Child Foundation: To stop the cycle of abuse through raising awareness of all forms of child abuse; through community involvement such as education, mentoring, life skills training and advocates for youth we will stop the cycle of abuse and make the world a safe place for children of many generations to come. Which also includes: financially supporting safe houses, mentoring programs and other services that would otherwise close due to funding.

Shannon's Hope Maternity Home's Mission Statement: Shannon's Hope offers a safe, loving environment for pregnant women and their children. An opportunity for success through each individualized program. Proper nutrition through a balanced diet and large food pantry. Mentoring through hands-on life-skills training. Counseling to heal from past abuse and pain Most importantly a place these moms can call home!

As Leslie and I talked we went over the statistics of abuse! I talked about how my entire goal was to stop the cycle of abuse and she just grabbed me and cried! It must have been a very interesting sight...too old women holding each other crying in a very loud restaurant! I YI YI!!!

Did you know?
*1 in 4 women are victims of domestic violence
*20% of domestic violence victims are pregnant
*Pregnant women are at higher risk of becoming victims of domestic violence
*In Colorado, every day there are 504 homeless women with at least one child
*85% of homeless women will get pregnant within the first 3 months of homelessness
*22% of pregnant homeless women have substance abuse problems
*37% of teenage mothers will have another child within 24 months of giving birth

What can we do to stop the cycle?......
You can help the Unseen Children by donating goods:
*diapers - we can use every size
*food - we teach each resident how to eat healthy and balanced
*Clothing - some residents enter the home with just the clothes that they are wearing
*toiletries - we can use everything from shampoo to toilet paper
*Baby supplies - each newborn needs everything from diapers, tiny t'shirts, baby clothes, winter baby blankets...the list continues! You can help us by having a baby shower for the Unseen Children from Shannon's Hope!

Most importantly this home will be closed due to the funding if we don't raise money quickly! This home has 10 bedrooms and each room has a bathroom. That's 12 mothers people!!! The Unseen Child Foundation has personally taken on this project to make a difference in the life of these children. We received one new mom yesterday and tomorrow we will be interviewing another young mom!

I have been on the phone talking to my friends from LA, NYC, Nashville and Colorado! I will not stop until this house is funded!

We appreciate any contribution, big or small. We have setup online payments, one-time or monthly, on the website www.shannonshope.org. There will soon be another page on www.unseenchild.com to make a donation.
You can make your checks payable to "Shannon's Hope" Or "Unseen Child Foundation" All donations go to PO Box 1439 Wheat Ridge CO 80304

To all my celebrity buddies you can make a donation by sending auction items! We have already collected over 25 items and the boxes are coming in! Please help me help these children!?!

Much love to all!!!

Diana Joy...
Unseen Child Foundation Team
Shannon's Hope Home Team
And all the many young moms and children waiting for your help :)
XOXOXOXO

Thanks Leann Rimes for your kind donations to the homeless!

2011-04-19T15:20:00.000-07:00

The Unseen Child Foundation wants to thank Leann Rimes for her kind donations to the homeless kids here in Denver Colorado. Also, we want to thank Denvers KYGO radio station for having us at the event Feb. 3 2011!

The "Unseen Child Foundation" needs you!!!!'

2011-04-19T07:59:00.000-07:00

My adopted son is back after being gone for three days. The last two days have been filled with constant chatter of how NASA has a bunker and is hiding the reality that we are about to be attacked. That there are many in authority who are out to destroy him...as well as us. And of course the government is one big conspiracy!

I feel so helpless due to the reality that his therapy has ended after 3 months and will not start up again for another 3 months! So, we will need to keep him safe and focused for the next 90 days! Because he is now home, my job is to keep him in a structured environment and out of the way of the news. My husband wakes him up at 7:30 am and then we begin our day of following a list of chores or activities. While helping him keep busy, I have to hear the constant talk of paranoia!

My husband and I have been doing this for over 20 years. People keep asking us when we are going to stop? Well, right when it's time to retire...another kid comes across our door step needing food or clothing! Some will send a endless amount of texts through my phone asking for a place they can go to talk or not feel alone. Most of the text are always the same...the world is ending and they are going to need to get weapons or anything they can to survive. The texts are some times filled with Bible verses proving the end is near. These kids, young adults or homeless moms are just asking for a place they can go to, to connect with other people....just to feel safe with out any questions of where they came from or what lies ahead.

Since September 11, 2001 the problem has more than quadrupled! Denver has gone from 10,000 to 20,000 homeless! Dave and I don't take the kids that are just homeless because of abuse or aging out of the foster care system. There are plenty of shelters for those kids or young adults. The majority of our young adults are mentally ill or have a criminal record as long as a 10 story building...(ok...maybe that's a little bit of a overestimation!) But, when hearing why they are on the run...it sure feels like the list goes on forever!!!!!

The only homeless young adults (or teens) we see are the ones that wander the streets, talking out load to nobody. Or hanging out down town trying to make a connection with some one to warn them of what danger is ahead.

There are several you won't see. Those are the ones that only come out at night. They hide due to the reality that they need to stay "Unseen" from the police or others in authority. They can't go to a shelter because that would require a name....that would put them at risk of being arrested. So, what can we do for those children and adults?.....Ignore them? Continue to let them be "Unseen" and continue the cycle of abuse on to their children? We need a place that the young mothers can go with their children...that require no name to receive help. A supervised environment that won't ignore the homeless. That will give them mentoring and resources (like computer lab) to get a job.

Most of the women are in a relationship (or married) to a pimp or abusive adult. Unfortunately, a lot of the men are up to 10 or 20 years older than the young women. The young woman often will have more than one child and suffer with some type of "Mental Illness" or "Post Traumatic Stress Disorder".

So, now you know about how the Unseen Child Foundation came to be.

How can you help the "Unseen Child Foundation"???
We provide:
*Clothing Bank - Clothes for all ages needed! Especially birth to child size 16.
*Computer Lab - Apple donated computers so that the young moms, young adults or homeless teens can get their G.E.D
*Mentoring Program - Volunteers needed!
*Back to school Back pack program - School supplies!
*Christmas program - giving gifts to children who would otherwise not have them.
*Thanksgiving program - giving a meal to a family who would other wise not be able to eat a meal on the holiday.
*Annual "Baby Shower" that provides diapers, wipes and items that most government funded programs do not provide.

The most important gift you could give the "Unseen Child Foundation" is a building! For almost 20 years we have been "Mom & Pop" program. Which means my husband and I have been working this alone. As of 2 years ago we became a "Non-profit - 501 C3". We now have volunteers...but, need many more! Most of all we need a building to run all of these programs. The stress of having people come in and out of our home has been too much. Due to the reality that we live in one of the lowest income area's in the largest county in the Denver Metro Area our needs are extremely high!

Go to www.unseenchild.com and help us help the homeless!!!

God bless!

Diana Joy

Amazing Grace how sweet the sound

2011-02-24T23:06:00.000-08:00

Since my last post I have realized that yes, there are people who want all the latest "yuck" from County Music Artist, Actors and Celebrities. But, I hope that those people are in the minority. Please confirm this to be a accurate assumption! The majority of society truly wants to see the good in everyone. So today I am no longer keeping silent. I want society to know what the media doesn't tell them.

I have kept my mouth shut while watching E!News and other media outlets bash Leann Rimes! E!News recently launched a very hurtful,extremely opinionated, story about Leann. I understand the point of celebrity news casts. There job is to dig up the worst dirt possible. But, since when has it become about posting personal opinions of someone they do not even know personally? Truthfully, I really believe deep down we all want to hear the BEST in celebrities. After all we are the ones who push them upon pedestals and demand that the rest of their lives become about being our futures role models.

As I watch television I notice that we are a world obsessed with the day's "most popular drama" and reality TV shows, less and less do we stop anymore and take the time to actually know someone for who they really are (and not who they are "edited" to be).

It appears that there are seldom people who freely give of themselves anymore without expecting something in return, whether it be free publicity for their next album, or a chance to look good in front of the cameras before the debut of their next film. But, after meeting Leann (and other heroes I have met in Hollywood and Nashville) I have hope in our future.

Leann; time and time again has given of herself not because it would benefit her career, but just because her heart called her to. We are all struggling in this scary economy and pinching every little bit that we have left to hold on to. Yet, all the while she is to this day one of a dying breed who is not concerned with hoarding her precious material things. But would actually give them away for the purpose of putting a smile on a young woman's face. A woman who wakes up every day hoping that today will be a day in which she will be able to "Create a memory" with her daughter. And dreading the days she is taken away to the hospital separated from the very child she fights to live for.

I was in the hospital sitting with that same young woman and her name "Crystal". While sitting in the hospital room I saw E!News make the announcement regarding Leann Rimes. My heart broke because Crystal and I know the REAL Leann Rimes. She isn't the horrible person the media makes her out to be.

At that time few people knew that Crystal was in the hospital battling cancer and that she has a 9 year old daughter who is also hurting. They were "Unseen" to many. But, they were not "Unseen" to Leann! Do you realize that BEFORE E!News starting the "End of 2010 drama" Leann wanted to give Crystals daughter a gift. Crystal's daughter didn't ask Leann to cure her mom from cancer, or for her to give them lot's of money...all she ask for was for some one to help her mom feel pretty. Leann made sure that gift was granted. Within a day after hearing Crystal's story, Leann sent Crystal some of her own clothes! No one knew but us. Leann felt that out of respect for Crystal's daughter the gifts were to remain private. It was private, but now Crystal and Leann have agreed to make this public

Leann has been sending boxes to the Unseen Child Foundation for 2010 and now 2011. Leann and Eddie came to Denver after vacationing in Aspen. While the media was talking negative about the two of them, Leann was setting up a time to meet with Crystal and I at a KYGO party. Unfortunately, Crystal was back in the hospital when Leann arrived here in Denver. Very few people even noticed that Leann cried that day when I told her Crystal couldn't make it! That same day Leann fought back tears as she sang at the KYGO event because she looked at my assistant and saw pain in her eyes.Also, Eddie took me aside for a hug and to remind me that he and Leann were listening to our cries for support. He took time to ask more about how they could help! Wow! Did E!News catch that on camera?...sadly not.

I know that this is not what E!News would have reported. To them this isn't worthy material. The media believes all we want is the gossip of "Celebrities gone bad". But, I don't believe that is what you really want to hear. You want to hear the truth and that is that both Eddie and Leann are NOT who the media portrays them to be.

So, yes, there are celebrities that do wonderful things for the right reasons. Leann is one of the Unseen Child Foundations Silent Contributors. She kept quiet and respected the privacy of a young mother with cancer. She has continued to make donations to the Unseen Child Foundation which helps young mothers who are in the Witness Protection Program (due to domestic violence). Also,she helps homeless teens who have aged out of the foster care system. It was very emotional to hand some clothes and a pair of boots to a homeless teen that never thought she was seen. But, on the day I dropped the donation off, she was not only seen...but, was seen wearing a celebrities clothes! How awesome is that!!!

I met Leann Rimes through twitter. I talked about the old hymn "Amazing Grace" and how much it meant to me. Her response was, I can't get through that song with out crying. From that time on our relationship and trust grew. She was no longer just a celebrity...but a hero to so many who depend on the Unseen Child Foundation. I just ask you to think before you talk about another person. Do you really know who they are? Have you walked in their shoes? And most of all can you give them the "Grace" that you would want given to you?

When I see Leann's picture I don't think about what others say. I hear the song that we share together. The words that she has not only said, but lives today.
A verse from the song: Amazing Grace
"Amazing Grace, how sweet the sound,
That saved a wretch like me....
I once was lost but now am found,
Was blind, but now, I see".

God bless to all who have supported the Unseen Child Foundation! It is because of you that many homeless and needy people receive food and clothes through out this cold winter!

Diana Joy
CEO Unseen Child Foundation
www.unseenchild.com
Crystal Chapman
VP Unseen Child Foundation
Crystal has requested this blog be posted!

Don't ever say "NEVER"!

2011-01-30T22:20:00.000-08:00

Some times God tugs at my heart to write.. But, yesterday afternoon I felt like He knocked me over the head to get my attention! It was the string of negativity through twitter that was the straw the broke the camels back! My blood started to boil with the twitters of judgment, racism and prejudice! At that moment I made a commitment to myself (and God) that as soon as I found a window of opportunity, I would obediently let my fingers hit the key board and let God do the talking! I pray that my emotions and past experiences do not prohibit God's ability to use me as I type today.

I want to finally respond to some of tweets, DM's and e-mails sent to me from random people over the internet the last few weeks. The majority of the negative e-mails were from people I do not know. I guess they felt the need to educate me (with what they believed was the God's truth) regarding the people I follow both on facebook and twitter. They sent me links to blogs, articles and pictures of certain celebrities gone bad!

My adopted mother would probably do the "Happy Dance" if she knew I was admitting this to the world! She used to say, "Don't ever say "NEVER", because that's when you find yourself in the same position as someone you just judged." I remember as a teen saying in her presence "I'm NEVER going to be that bad!" I can still see the look in her eyes and the way she quickly sounded out the words..."Don't ever say never"...Ugh! That was all it took! At that point I realized that I am never above another person. That at any time in my life I could easily find myself in their shoes.

You would think I would learn when I was told the first time about being prejudice or judgmental...but, no. It wasn't long before I was talking as if I was God's gift to the world and this girl in high school needing saving from her sinful ways. Then I heard my mom say, "Yikes!!! Do you want God to pull out the lists of all the garbage you carry??...Then why would you make a list on some one else?" Ouch!....My mother was right again!

It would be over 20 years later that I would find myself on the other end of judgment. People would look at me and it was as if they were saying "I'm never going to be like her". Gulp! I was facing prejudice right in the face!

I was now being attacked by the media personally with false allegations! I now know how fast people jump to conclusions based on whatever they read in a newspaper or heard on the television. After all if it's in the newspaper it must be true...right? WRONG!!!! The media had gotten word about my childhood! It felt like minutes and the world knew I was the daughter of a well known criminal! And I was a woman with a mental illness called "Multiple Personality Disorder" My husband and I had some of our closest friends abandon us (to save their own image) right when we needed them most.

When my past was made public, I believed that the twenty years my husband and I had given to children was forgotten. The label "Mental Illness" over shadowed the fact that we were awarded "The home to successfully rehabilitate the top criminals in the state of Colorado".

Some how the label that was placed on me that day, felt like the "Star of David". All Jewish people would have to wear the "Star of David" symbol during Hitler's reign. Hitler attempted to destroy all the Jews and create the perfect human race. Millions of Jews were slaughtered because of their race and religion! The "Star" was threaded on to their coats to announce to the world that they were not worthy of life. It was the worst killings in our entire history!!

I know I wasn't facing death when many found out that I had a mental illness....And I had no "Star of David" on my coat.
But, to me it felt like I was dying. I felt my world crumble around me as I realized that I was now the person who I "Never" thought I would be! I was now the one being judged by others...including the church!

Through all of the trials and tribulations my husband and I experienced, I have learned that no one is perfect. Hitlers hope of a perfect race will never be! Everyone has hidden parts (or secrets). And I'm sure that they live in fear that if anyone knew who they really were death or judgment would be around the corner. Or worse...maybe that person believes they too are the person that society will "Never" accept.

So I ask you, "You who are quick to judge a celebrity, a race, a certain religion, a life style...how do you really know that your time won't come when you will be judged for your belief, your race or what secret you have hidden?"

It was immediate that the State of Colorado quickly apologized for releasing confidential documents...but, the damage was done. However, I learned that we are all damaged and by admitting it we can support and educate others. The only way to survive the massive movement of judgment and prejudice is to educate society on "Multiple Personality Disorder" and "Mental Illness". I now invite you to walk in my shoes and look out of the eyes of a woman with "Multiple Personality Disorder" by reading the book "Looking Through the Eyes of an Unseen Child". Check out my site: www.unseenchild.com to learn more about me, my husband and the "Unseen Child Foundation".

I have a deep respect and admiration for entertainers. They are expected to come up with newest music continually throughout the year. When we are relaxing, they are thinking of the next holiday song, or the music that will be on the top ten list. Some entertainers pursue acting and that complicates life even more! Gosh these people have to put their hearts and lives in the public for the media, internet and tabloids to decide their ultimate fate. How stressful it must be to have little or no control over what others say about you. As soon as something personal in their life happens the tabloids know within a day!

I was watching on the television about Oprah and how she found her sister. It was a hard reality to see her tears fall as she stumbled with the words, "This woman is the only person in my life who hasn't sold me out for money or fame!" Can you believe the only person in her life that had not sold her out was a sister she never met!

Personally, as a celebrity I would have a hard time trusting anyone. I think I would walk around afraid to speak, let alone get up on a stage and poor my heart out to the world to judge! You're entire life can be exposed for the right amount of money! How horrible would it have been if I didn't have that privacy to find my siblings and work through all the secrets from our past together?! It makes my skin crawl to think that parents sell out their own children in show business! Then people on the streets, bloggers, tabloids and the media have the nerve to say, "If she didn't want the world to know her business, then she shouldn't be a celebrity!"....How dumb is that!!!

Also, how crazy is it that society insists the celebrities look perfect...but, at the same time bash them for doing what they must to look great! Ugh! They can get braces, hair dyed, and a make over. But, heaven forbid they get plastic surgery of any kind! We as a society pay them to look perfect and demand it...and yet can't wait to be the first to tear them down when they do!!!

So those of you who are spreading this trash...think before you press "Send", "Twitter" or "Post"...because it is inevitable that your day will come...you will be judged...because there is no perfect race, person, religion...etc. And just think, the next generation is watching us all...learning from us how to survive!
Please think before you speak. And speak with compassion and not judgment!

November 6th!! Don't forget!!! Hope to see you there!!

2010-11-03T12:31:00.000-07:00

About the Unseen Child Foundation

2010-11-03T12:21:00.000-07:00

What can the Unseen Child Foundation do for your family and other non-profit organizations in your area? The Unseen Child Foundation is a non-profit organization that assists other non-profits working to open their doors and offer help to children and adults in need.
A problem here in Denver and across the nation is that non-profits offering care to homeless, elderly, and mentally handicapped children and adults are facing tough times and many find themselves being forced to close. They stand alone without additional support and leave those depending on them to survive alone. These same children & adults end up coming to us seeking the help promised them by other non-profit programs.
I stand up (as one person) and offer my voice to encourage existing non-profits. Don't give up! Keep fighting! There are so many wonderful people like you out there trying to make a difference. Please keep trying. The government can’t help this time. We have to do it ourselves.
I am only one person, but one person can begin to create change. Especially in today’s economy if we all don't all stick together we stand alone. Let’s stand up together =). The Unseen Child Foundation’s goal is to help fund other non-profit programs so that they can keep their doors open and continue assisting people.
My voice, book, documentary, and life story raise the money needed to help develop, grow, and support non-profit programs like yours that work is hard to provide for children and adults in need.
I was an “Unseen Child.” It’s not easy to tell my story, but if I don't, then the patterns of abuse, homelessness, and poverty will continue unchallenged. I am challenging them!
I would love to come to your local bookstore, church or community center to share my story, the Unseen Child Foundation’s mission, and talk with you about ways to help children in your area who suffer. Please contact Cheri Vikdal for assistance with booking Cvikdal@comcast.net
You CAN make a difference in a child’s life by making a donation to the Unseen Child Foundation or purchasing a book. Let’s help each other. No one needs to stand alone fighting. Let's stand up together working to help the next generation.
May God bless you and remember...you are not alone!
*hugs*
Diana Joy

Please pass this to anyone you know that needs help!

Saturday Nov. 6th Village of Five Parks Food & Coat Drive!

2010-11-02T18:40:00.000-07:00

Point Of Grace - How You Live [Turn Up The Music] (Video)

2010-06-09T11:56:00.000-07:00

Good morning my friends!

Today will be a full day of juggling children and getting to Greenwood Community Church...on time! Augh! Being on time is not my strength! lol

The birds were singing and as I looked around I noticed my favorite flowers were beginning to blossom! While spending time in prayer a song and God's word (from the Bible) came to mind. The song "How to live" and the verses Mathew: 15:32-38

As I prayed for all the people who would be in the church today and
the struggles our family is going through, I found myself so thankful for all that God has given me! My family, the house, the wonderful view of all the flowers and the excitement of sharing God's word with others.

There are a lot of people with lost jobs, illnesses, unpaid bills and even the possibility of homelessness. Even our house is full with our grandson, granddaughter, two birth daughters and a woman with two small children. As I question how to pay our bills and feed everyone in our home I am quickly reminded of how big and how strong our God is! I imagine Him looking down on all the chaos and saying, "I will provide, be thankful in all things and enjoy the moment! This is how I want you to live!"

Mathew 15:32-38:
32: And Jesus called His disciple to Him, and said, "I feel compassion for the multitude, because they have remained with Me now three days and have nothing to eat; and I do not wish to send them away hungry, let they faint on the way." 33: and the disciples said to Him, "Where would we get so many loaves in a desolate place to satisfy such a great multitude?" 34: And Jesus said to them, "How many loaves do you have?" and they said, Seven and a few fish."
Verses 35 through 39: Jesus gives thanks for what little food He has and gives the food to the disciples to give to 4,000 people. Every man, woman and child had full stomachs that day.

These words are a comfort to me, because I know that if God can feed all those people....then He can feed all those living in our home, you who are struggling and the homeless!

As I typed out the conclusion of my speech, I was reminded that God is a great God and can handle all things! Yes, I will be looking at the past and the present. But, I want to also look at the future!

The song that God gave me today is:
"How to live/Turn up your music" by "Point of Grace"
Here are a view words that came to me to remind me how to live!
Chorus:
Turn up the music
Turn it up loud
Take a few chances
Let it all out
You won't regret it
Lookin' back from where you have been
Cuz it's not who you knew
And it's not what you did
It's how you live

Bridge:
Oh wherever you are and wherever you've been
Now is the time to begin

Verse 3:
So give to the needy
And pray for the grieving
Even when you don't think that you can
'Cause all that you do is bound to come back to you
So think of your fellow man
Make peace with God and make peace with yourself
'Cause in the end there's nobody else.

Here is the video for those of you who want to hear the entire song ;-)

So, my friends it is ok to look back and see the present. But be sure to rejoice for what God can do for our future.
God's not done with us yet!!!
Have hope my friends!

Here is where I will speaking:
6:30pm today.
5600 East Belleview Avenue
Greenwood Vlg, CO 80111-1446
(303) 843-0281
God bless you all!
Know that God has it all under control...
I look forward to seeing some of you tonight!
Enjoy the moment =)
Diana Joy

Thanks WomanOf.com for the award!

2010-03-21T10:31:00.000-07:00

Diana also launched last year the Unseen Child Foundation, a non-profit organization that funnels money to shelters, safe houses and other programs in Denver that help abused children. “There are 1,500 kids between 9 and 15 years old who are homeless in Denver. That is out of control! I’m seeing awesome programs closing because of lack of funds,' Diana said. She donates $5 from the sale of each book to the foundation and is trying to garner more attention for it by teaming up with celebrities like Susie McEntire (sister to Reba McEntire), and many country music singers and songwriters.

The foundation may soon get its biggest boost when a documentary based on Diana’s work with teens comes out in the fall and when a motion picture, now in the hands of Hollywood screenwriters, is released.
It’s hard to imagine that someone with Diana’s tragic history could turn her life around so inspiringly. It is not just that she was able to become a normal person despite her terrible background, it’s that she is a better person at heart and by her actions than many of us with normal backgrounds ever become. There is something very special about Diana. Her pastor friend knew it, which is why, when Diana finally agreed to be adopted by him, he chose the most fitting surname he could think of for her: “Joy."

To learn more about Diana Joy and the Unseen Child Foundation visit http://www.unseenchild.com/.

"Adoption is not about finding children for families, it's about finding families for children”

2010-03-13T22:05:00.000-08:00

“We are willing to spend the least amount of money to keep a kid at home, more to put him in a foster home and the most to institutionalize him.”
~Marian Wright Edelman~
My oldest adopted daughter gave birth to five children. Two of the kids flew in today and are now spending the next few weeks with grandma and grandpa :) I went to pick up my grandson Gabe. When he came off the airplane I could hardly recognize him...at 11years old he is almost as tall as me!
Because he is missing gene #13 he struggles with speech, eyesight and obsessive, compulsive disorder (known as OCD). When he was born the doctors told us he would not get older than two years old…when he was five the doctors told us he would not progress much further than 6. When he was 7 the doctors said he wouldn’t be able to read or write…and that he would never become emotionally or intellectually older than 5 or 6 years-old. At eleven Gabe can read, write and participate in class with other children his age.
After having Gabe in my house for every holiday and a few entire summer breaks (since his birth), I have learned that Gabe is an amazing child. He may not look or act like children his age. But, God has given him gifts that I wish I possessed. Gabe has gifts of kindness, forgiveness, unconditional love, freedom to express himself, and the bravery of a giant. He is so kind and knows when another child is hurting…no matter the age, Gabe doesn’t hesitate to give them a big hug to comfort them. He is not embarrassed to dance and sing when he hears a song that he likes. He has a smile that can cause even strangers to stop and smile back. If another child doesn’t understand him (because of his speech impediment) he will say, “That’s ok…I will say it again…this time slowly”. Gabe lives innocently in the moment, enjoying every day. His eyes show no judgment. With every obstacle he faces he handles it with such bravery. Nothing is impossible for Gabe. Whatever the doctors tell him he can’t do…it’s as if he knows and is silently telling them… “Oh silly doctors, I can and will do what you say I can’t”. And every year he exceeds everyone’s expectations!
Gabe’s mom was my first adopted child. She had Gabe at a young age and loved him the best she could. When you read my book you will see her as “My Child without a Birth certificate” Gabe is who he is because his mom believes in him. She is determined to change the cycle of abuse and encourage him to grow beyond what other expects of him.
My oldest daughter (Gabe’s mom) was on the streets and in institutions before I got her. What if I didn’t care…what if my husband and I saw her as a difficult child who had no hope in her future? I hate to think of all the happy memories we would have lost. The enjoyment of having Gabe’s eyes shine with every new step he takes in life. What if we hadn’t adopted at all…..? What a sad time that would be for us all. I truly believe children come in to our lives for a reason. God gives us children through birth and some through adoption….I myself see no difference. My husband and I have cried and rejoiced with every stage of every child God has brought into our life. These children and grandchildren are our many blessings and my husband and I thank God that we have had a small part in sharing life with them.

If we don't help these children we are not only depriving them of happy memories...we are depriving ourselves.
It just takes one person to look into the eyes of an unseen child and through that child many lives can be changed! If we didn't help our oldest daughter...we wouldn't have our grandson Gabe! And what a loss that would be.....

Our Grandson Gabe =)

"It is what we do with what we are given that makes us who we are today"

2010-03-11T04:23:00.000-08:00

“I can see, and that is why I can be happy, in what you call the dark, but which to me is golden. I can see a God-made world, not a manmade world.”
~Helen Keller~
“Life is not filled with disabilities at all, but rather more abilities.” ~Patrick Hughes~
Isn't it amazing how the true hero’s we as society search for in times of trouble are not found being chased by the paparazzi. I truly believe with this economy the hero's are not those with money, beauty, fame or mansions.
The true heroes are those men and women who have overcome the worst of situations and come out smiling that bring joy to us all and give us hope in life. It is those men and women who use their stories to remind us that no matter how many curve balls life throws at us, we will survive!
It is a woman like Helen Keller (who was became blind, deaf and mute at 18 months) and a man like Patrick Hughes (who was not only blind, but also crippled from birth) who gives me the inspiration to overcome anything and to see the blessings God gives me through the most painful times! Helen Keller and Patrick Hughes put life in to perspective and see life as a blessing, not a handicap.
Patrick not only survived, but came out rejoicing for what God has given him. If a man who is blind and cannot walk can smile and see the joy in what he was given. Then I who can see and walk will rejoice and be thankful for every obstacle that comes across my path in life!
I pray that you too will learn from Patrick Hughes and Helen Keller the most valuable lesson in life, “It is what we do with what we are given that makes us who we are today.” Choose to see the good in everything God has brought across your path. Just like my heroes’ Patrick Hughes and Helen Keller have done!!!

"Instead of comparing our lot with that of those who are more fortunate than we are, we should compare it with the lot of the great majority of our fellow men. It then appears that we are among the privileged."
~Helen Keller~

I love living life! I am happy!

2010-02-19T21:41:00.000-08:00

This has been a short week for me....I don't even know where the time went. But many months leading up to this week I have been living day to day. The reality is that I have been struggling with headaches and heart spasms. Over the last month I have spoken with a few Brain specialists. I wish I could say this is the first time I have had to face doctors begging for answers…
Unfortunately, 10 years ago I found myself sitting in front of a doctor who told me I needed brain surgery. It seemed like just a few days and I was already scheduled for the day that would change my life forever. I could go in to detail about those years….but, the one thing I remember most is when the physical therapist told me to walk and I kept falling. I was crying and she said, “Diana, you don’t need to walk a mile…or a block…just take one step at a time…put one foot in front of the other. It wasn’t the surgery that changed my life….it was the image of putting one foot in front of the other and eventually you will get there. So simple…but for me at times it has been extremely difficult. Perhaps you are going through something very difficult in your life. Like the loss of a job, an illness, or loss of a child. And some days you may feel like you can’t even get out of bed….I hope that you remember this post =-)! Just put one foot in front of the other and eventually you will get there!
I met with a wonderful doctor who took the time to put my heart at rest. Isn't it amazing how it just takes one person to look into your eyes, take time to tell you exactly what you have and then tell you, "It's going to be ok Diana! You don’t have to have brain surgery". It changes your day...or most importantly your life. God is so great, on Tuesday this doctor found out what all the others doctors couldn't and I am now on my road to recovery. My head is not hurting as often and the chest pain is less every day. God answered my prayer by giving me that one person who would calm my fears! I’m already feeling better!!! So, tomorrow I will get up with a smile…because I know that God gives me the ability to take one day at a time, one step at a time, and the gift of helping one child at a time through all the wonderful people who took the time to care throughout my life.
I hope my story inspires you to hang in there when things get tough. I was sent this through twitter just about the same time I was meeting with the doctor. Boy does he put life in to perspective! This post is for all of you who think you cannot take another step…those of you who are suffering in silence….those who are unseen….
Check out this video!
God bless you all!
Diana Joy

Proverbs 23:18
There is surely a future hope for you, and your hope will not be cut off.

Note to God.....

2010-02-10T17:02:00.000-08:00

It has been such an emotional week! Some of my closest friends and family members have called me screaming!
I don’t think they realized that they were yelling at me….It was just that I happen to be in the way as they were loudly telling the world how angry and afraid they were. I would be lying if I told you that I handled myself with grace and control over the last few days. I have to confess that my family received the wrath of all of my fears and frustrations regarding our future this week as well.
This afternoon after some of the chaos had dissipated; I realized that the one person who should be educated on what’s going in the world was not called upon. So, when the phone stopped ringing and the house finally became silent I began to write a letter to the big guy upstairs…..Yep! That’s right! It was time to tell God a few things that He must have missed while making His rounds through our neighborhood.
As I began to write I could feel the anger building inside me! So the first words I wrote were, “Where are you God!” Then I put down the pen and said, “Now Lord, I don’t want to tell you how to run the world….but, well you had better get down here and help me with these endless medical bills, make sure my husband isn’t the next one to be let go from his company and give me some peace from all the yelling!” (At this point I realized I was the only one screaming)…Within minutes my emotions went from anger to fear! My heart pounded as I started to think of what could happen to me and my loved ones if God didn’t stop the madness! And it was only after I allowed myself to feel the fear that the tears started to flow and I went from telling God how He needed to run the world to crying out to the Lord to rescue my family and friends from the overwhelming fear that lingers from house to house throughout our city. At this point I bowed my head and prayed, “God there is so many hurting children on the streets and parents suffering because they can’t afford to get medical care for their family because they too have no job. Lord help them…help us all”
When I opened my Bible I went directly to the words a special man read to me when I was young and living in fear, “Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” (Philippians 4:6-7)

Because I truly believe that God uses music to speak to us, I will post this video as well. This girls name is Charice. She expresses so much emotion throughout the song! I love it!!!!

"A mother understands what a child does not say.”

2010-01-24T09:54:00.000-08:00

Hey Friends!

I want to make you aware of a Country Music Artist who is supporting homeless teens. He is taking it to the ultimate by sacraficing himself. He is walking across the US (in the winter) to show society what it is like to be a homeless child on the streets. He was 14 when he was sent out to survive! Jimmy can share his story...than so can I. Jimmy encourages you to get involved -- in whatever way you can. Maybe you'd make a great foster parent. Perhaps you could volunteer to help kids in your community. And if making a donation is more your style, anything you can contribute to the cause will be helpful. Find an organization in your own community that helps kids at risk.

Mission Statement: "Unseen Child Foundation"
To stop the cycle of abuse through raising awareness of all forms of child abuse; through community involvement such as education, mentoring, life skills training and advocates for youth we will stop the cycle of abuse and make the world a safe place for children of many generations to come. Which also includes: financially supporting safe houses, mentoring programs and other services that would otherwise close due to funding.

Please help us by making a donation to the "Unseen Child Foundation" at www.unseenchild.com! You can change the cycle of abuse my looking in to the eyes of an unseen child! Through that one child many live can be changed! Look at what Jimmy has done!

God bless!
Diana Joy
dianajoy6@gmail.com

My buddies from Spirit Media!

2010-01-22T15:23:00.000-08:00

Check out Spirit Media! These guys are going places!!!!

God bless!!
Diana Joy

We need to stop the cycle of abuse!

2010-01-21T17:20:00.000-08:00

Female Friendly Businesses and Diana Joy Albertsen on Child Abuse - The best video clips are here

The Unseen Child Foundation's Mission Statement:
To stop the cycle of abuse through raising awareness of all forms of child abuse; through community involvement such as education, mentoring, life skills training and advocates for youth we will stop the cycle of abuse and make the world a safe place for children of many generations to come. Which also includes: financially supporting safe houses, mentoring programs and other services that would otherwise close due to funding.

Help me speak in the prisons, churches and Universities to educate society on child abuse. We need to make people aware of all types of abuse that is happening behind closed doors so that the cycle of abuse can come to an end.

I can't do it alone.....

God bless!

Diana Joy

One person can change so much!

2010-01-16T21:33:00.000-08:00

“To the world you may be just one person, but to one person you may be the world.”
This hit me hard when I read this! What if just one person could have said something...maybe the two-year-old would be here today....
Be that one person to change the life of a child!!!!!!!

The mother of a two-year-old boy who had burns over 75 percent of his body pleaded guilty today to child abuse resulting in death in exchange for prosecutors dropping a first-degree murder charge against her.

Isela Reyes-Talamentes, 23, will be sentenced on March 19, and faces a possible maximum sentence of 32 years in prison.

The boy, Elijah Archuleta, was taken to St. Anthony's Central on Nov. 7, 2008, and was pronounced dead shortly after his arrival.

Reyes-Talamentes' boyfriend, John Vigil, 22, is charged with first-degree murder and child abuse resulting in death in the case.

His trial date has not been scheduled.

According to court documents, the couple brought Elijah to a triage room wrapped from head to foot in blankets.

A triage nurse, Gregory Busby, asked the couple how the child was burned and Vigil said Elijah was burned a day earlier while standing in a bathtub. Vigil claimed the youngster turned on the hot water and burned himself.

Vigil claimed they brought the child to the hospital because he was choking - not because of the burns.

Busby noticed the child wasn't breathing and, while running with him, administered two "rescue breaths".

Busby then noticed the child was "ice cold" and "had no pulse."

Medical personnel spent 30 minutes trying to revive the child but were unsuccessful.

Police went to the couple's home and found Elijah's sister, four-year-old Serenity.

She told police that Vigil had burned Elijah and after doing so he started choking and died.

Serenity told investigators that her mommy was crying and upset that Elijah had died.

Reyes-Talamentes first told police that Vigil, who was serving a three-year deferred sentence for drug dealing, gave the boy a bath after he returned from a court appearance.

Later, she changed her story.

She told detectives that Vigil had picked her up from work with Elijah in the car.

She noticed that Elijah's hands and face were red. However, instead of taking the child to a hospital, she said they went to Vigil's court hearing, then went to Chipotle, and then to Wal-Mart, where they bought chips, sliced turkey and Lunchables.

After that, Vigil went and hung out with friends.

Eventually, after the Reyes-Talamentes discovered the extent of the injuries to the child, they finally took the child to a hospital.

Jan. 13th 2010 - Read more: http://www.denverpost.com/commented/ci_14181923?source=commented-#ixzz0cqdGSLIH

It's time to stop the world and get off!

2010-01-15T07:20:00.001-08:00

All week I kept telling myself and others, "Stay positive, God has everything in control, everything happens for a reason, dream big and great things will happen. But, now I realize I wasn't listening to their pain. I was covering it up with quick answers and moving on through my day. So, I need to apologize to all those who have e-mailed me or called me and due to a stupid list of "To Do's" I responded quickly and moved on with my day.
Yesterday everything came crumbling down!
I had a conflict with one of my closest friends for the first time ever. And honestly, I didn't even see it coming! I'm sure it was because I was blindly rushing through my day not taking time to listen.
Then I had several deadlines to meet and only accomplished 1/4 of what was expected. By the end of the day I realized my daughter needed me to finish up some of her Senior Year necessities and the deadline was yesterday. But, because I was trying to juggle too many tasks at once, the most important task that needed to be top on my list...was pushed down and I only accomplished 1/2 of what she needed. I am so thankful for her soft, forgiving spirit and the gifts that God gave her of knowing how to make everything work no matter how impossible it may seem. She got on the phone and was able to request an extension until 11:30 today. So, I put that task on the top of my list...then told my 12 year-old that we would have girls night tonight and the phone and the computer would be turned off!
As I write I hope you are getting the idea of how crazy my life has been. But, no matter how much I cried out to God yesterday and blamed Him for everything. The reality is I didn't take time to listen to even Him. So this morning I knew I needed to stop the world and step off! I finally sat with God and listened. What I heard Him say was what I have heard so many times when my life gets out of control, "Diana, it's ok my child, I know you are hurting. You don't have to be strong with me. Come lay in my arms my child and let the tears flow. Let me take care of the rest." I finally gave him the list of failed tasks and the people I have hurt while trying to accomplish it all. At this point I finally realized that the list was written to somehow control the feelings I had inside me. The tears fell for all the pain that I have seen over the last couple of weeks! I finally stopped rushing around controlling every move I make....I finally sobbed for all the lives lost in Haiti :( And began praying for the country that has lost so much and prayed for God to hold them tightly in His arms!
For all the individuals who sent me e-mails and texts saying:
*I don't have a job any more!
*Where do I go from here?
*My husband just left and now I have children to raise alone!
*The court took away my children and I need your help!
*My child's sick and I don't know what to do!
*Or worse, I'm sick and I don't know what's wrong?....
*And the most common e-mail is,"Is the world ending? I see disaster all over! Isn't that signs of the end times?"

I humbly tell you that these are all questions that I cannot answer. But,know who can! I did the most important task of all..which is give every ones fears and pain to God.
As the tears are falling with each word I type, I hand one by one each of the burdens I have carried throughout the week over to God. After I finished sobbing and praying to God this morning, I opened my e-mail and finished the last of my tasks for the week. I decided the weekend would be set aside for family and God.
In one of the e-mails a good friend Teresa Weesner sent me this devotional. I hope you get as much out of this as I did =)

Road of Life
At first, I saw God as my observer, my judge, keeping track of the things I did wrong, so as to know whether I merited heaven or hell when I die. He was out there, sort of like a president. I recognized His picture when I saw it, but I really didn't know Him.
But later on when I met Christ, it seemed as though life were rather like a bike ride, but it was a tandem bike. and I noticed that Christ was in the back helping me pedal.
I don't know just when it was that He suggested we changed places, but life has not been the same since. When I had control. I knew the way. It was rather boring, but predictable...It was the shortest distance between two points. But when He took the lead, He knew delightful long cuts, up mountains, and through rocky places at breakneck speeds, it was all I could do to hang on!! Even though it looked like madness, He said, "Pedal!"
I worried and was anxious and asked, "Where are you taking me?" He laughed and didn't answer, and I started to learn to trust. I forgot my boring life and entered into the adventure. And when I'd say, "I'm scared," He'd lean back and touch my hand. He took me to people with gifts that I needed, gifts of healing, acceptance and joy. They gave me their gifts to take on my journey, my Lord's and mine. And we were off again. He said, "Give the gifts away; they're extra baggage, too much weight." So I did, to the people we met, and I found that in giving I received, and still our burden was light.
I did not trust Him, at first, in control of my life. I thought He'd wreck it; but He knows bike secrets, knows how to make it bend to take sharp corners, jumps to clear high rocks, fly to shorten scary passages. And I am learning to shut up and pedal in the strangest places, and I'm beginning to enjoy the cool breeze on my face with my delightful constant companion, Christ. And when I'm sure I just can't do anymore, He just smiles and says..."Pedal."
--Author?
I think the Author is God =)
God bless and have a wonderful weekend!
Diana Joy

My good friend Robert Jason!

2010-01-09T14:23:00.000-08:00

I was honored to have the opportunity to meet Robert Jason when he showed up at our book signing with Borders Books in Nashville TN! I so wished we could have spent more time together....we have stayed in touch through e-mails and phone calls....but, something tells me we will be seeing each other again soon =) Robert is a multi-talented Songwriter, Producer, Composer, and Studio Vocalist, whose songs have been recorded by Alabama, Reba McEntire, Barry White, and Fox Brothers. Check out his site http://www.robertjason.com/.
I will be posting more video's of the awesome people who have come into my life through the book tour with Borders.
God bless!

My time in Nashville!

2010-01-09T10:20:00.000-08:00

Hey Ya'll!

I had a wonderful time in Nashville and I would like to introduce you to some of my new friends! Here is one of my good friends Becky Wright.

Here is Kim McLean entertaining us with "Pearl".

And her good friend Devon O'Day was also singing. I can't tell you how much it meant to me to have Kim, Devon and Becky show up at my book signing and sing such powerful songs! This is a memory that will never be forgotten! On New Years Eve I received a text from so many wonderful friends in Nashville saying, "Your family in Nashville loves you!" I can't wait to see what 2010 will bring! Check out these links and listen to their music!

Becky Wright: http://www.beckywrightsongs.com/

Kim McLean: http://www.kimmclean.com/

Devon O'Day: http://www.hippiechicktwang.com/

Here is Kim, Devon and the band having fun! Stay tuned for more adventures for 2010! I will be posting some of my good buddies and their links! You have to take the time and listen to them =) Also, check out my schedule for 2010 and see who will be on tour with me!

God Bless!

Diana Joy

Profile Playlist by Diana

2009-11-27T18:58:00.000-08:00

Profile Playlist by Diana

Looking Through the Eyes of an Unseen Child

2009-11-01T08:36:00.001-08:00

Here is the video for the Borders Books Book tour! Keep a look out for the schedule for the year tour. Susie McEntire Luchsinger performed while I spoke out for the Unseen Children!

Dear Friends, I tell you some more about my story....

2009-10-18T00:16:00.000-07:00

Dear Friends,
I wanted to let you know that the documentary is being filmed and so please check in on my Youtube and see the faces of the kids I fight so hard for. They need you! I will be meeting with my manager in 2 weeks to move forward on a movie. And Borders has asked Susie McEntire Luchsinger and I to tour Nation wide. Lately, I have posted so much about these kids because I want you to see what I go through...I see one of them dying, one of them fighting for her children and one simply fighting to feed her baby girl. Susie and I are pushing forward with this project for one reason....for the Unseen Children!
I need to be honest. So many of you have asked about my heart. I had my 5th heart-attack 4 weeks ago. And have been told that there are 6 spots in my brain where the bleeding cannot be stopped and another brain surgery is no longer an option. When I say, "I need you". It is true! I cannot go on fighting so hard without any help. Please help me by purchasing a book for a child? With each book purchased $5 goes to the Unseen Child Foundation to help these children get the care they need.
I am just one person...and I know that it just takes one person to change the life of a child and through that one child many generations can be changed.
This video was very difficult because I had to take the next step into letting the world see who I am. Please don't give up on me...and on the people who mean so much to me! I am not working at this time and have made a committment to push forward with every thing I have in me!
I know money is tight for everyone. If you cannot purchase a book, please make a donations through www.unseenchild.com.
Also, we need the finacial support to continue to travel to spread the word of the Unseen Child. Call your local book store and request for Susie and I to come to your town.
Life is short and we need to take advantage of every minute of every day to help the next generation...our future!
God bless you all!
Love,
Diana Joy
Here is the next link...I will have the children share a little each week through Youtube. 100 Productions has offered their help so that you will see what it is like to be Crysal, Chanel, and Mary.
If you are a foster child, abused child, or an abused adult and want your story to be heard, feel free to contact me through dianajoy6@gmail.com.
Also, www.unseenchild.com.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=71bvACrZGFk

Please pass this along!!!!

Pictures from Borders Book signing on September 26th '09

2009-10-16T16:55:00.000-07:00

Here are the pictures from the book signing on September 26th 09! I don't think there was a dry eye in the house! *hugs to my blogger friends*
Call a Borders near you and ask for us to come to your area ;-)

Speaking out for the Unseen Children by Diana Joy and Susie McEntire Luchsinger

2009-10-16T16:10:00.000-07:00

Everything went very well on September 26th! Thank you so much to all of you that came to support us in person and thank you to all who had us in their prayers =)It was very moving! Here is just one small clip of the event. Susie and I have been asked to go on tour with Borders. Borders supplies everything but the cost of transportation and food. Please pray that God will open a door for us to travel and spread the word!

I will also put up a slide for you all to see :) Also, keep your eyes open for more clips from this event as well as the documentary that is in the making ;-)
God bless you all!!!!
Love,
Diana Joy

Diana Joy and Susie McEntire Luchsinger will be together on September 26th at Borders Books!

2009-09-14T21:49:00.001-07:00

Hey Everyone!

This is my good friend Susie McEntire Luchsinger and me having a blast at a photo-shoot last June. Susie has been very kind to assist me with my book signing at Borders Books. It is on September 26th @ 1:00. Susie will sing a few of her songs and then I will speak about my book "Looking Through the Eyes of an Unseen Child". The event is at Borders Books, Park Meadows Mall, Lone Tree Colorado. If you want to hear the music and speaking you might want to me a little early...so you can get good seats. And best of all, it's a totally free event!

Hopefully, this will be the first of many book signings with Borders. I am hoping to tour Nationally! With all your help I can reach my dream of traveling all over the US speaking and raising money for the Unseen Child Foundation.

The U.C.F (Unseen Child Foundation) is a foundation that was started last year with the hopes that we could raise enough money to help safe houses here in Denver. It has been a dream of mine for over 20 years and now I feel like the doors are opening for big things to happen! I am also in the process of working with a few screenwriters. Some from LA and some from NYC. It has been tough to go back and relive your life with people who are wanting to put your life on the big screen for the world to see! OMGosh! That was such a long sentence, I had to take a minute to breath!!! So, yes, my story is now not only world wide (though the book "Looking Through the Eyes of an Unseen Child") it is going to be a motion picture. Tamara Banks will also be doing my Documentary. Here is a interview with Tamara regarding my book. This is when we first met and I was very sick...poor Tamara had to put up with me coughing :p
Here is an interview with PBS: http://www.kbdi.org/on_demand/video_player.cfm?video=1003 Please continue to pray that doors will open and lives will be touched. I am honored to be standing with such wonderful, loving people! And to have such wonderful blogger friends who were there for me years ago...when the entire idea...was just a dream....I love my blogger friends! Oh, how I have missed you all!

I will try and keep you all up-to-date on "A day in the life of Diana Joy". Hang on! There's ups and downs.....kinda like a roller coaster ride :o)!!!!

*hugs*

God bless!

~Diana Joy~

I'm back!!!! And boy does it feel good!!!!

2009-09-14T21:37:00.001-07:00

Watch out world! I'm back to blogging again! It feels great to be on blogger. It's been too long. I have to confess, I went to fb and got addicted :p But, lately I have found myself wanting to say more than a sentence or two. Now that I am writing my second book, speaking with screenwriters from L.A. and NYC...I find myself reflecting on my past...and with that...I am forced to run back to blogger and write away! lol
Here is the latest event that is coming up on September 26th @ 1:00pm. Please read the flier and pass it along :) If you are not in my area print out this flier and go to your local Borders Book store and tell them you want me to come to your town :) Or on September 26th call Borders and tell them you want me to be in your town the following weekend! lol
I want to thank you all for helping me through some very tough times. You were always there when I was down, ill, or just wanted to rant...
I hope to find some time to be on here more...I think I will wander around to my friends and say"HI".
*hugs*
Diana Joy

God bless this child!

2009-09-14T21:33:00.000-07:00

This afternoon I took a walk through our neighborhood toward the park. I guess I was hoping to catch a glimpse of the wonderful sun before "Mr.Winter" steals it away from me. A sick feeling came over me as I got closer to the grass and saw a glimpse of a "Memorial tree". The limbs hung over a creek and the playground could easily be seen by someone sitting beneath its branches.

You can't go far in Denver with out seeing these "Memorial trees". They are usually made up of a cross, flowers, teddy bears and notes attached to a tree. The memorials are usually for young kids who have died accidentally. For example the child was accidentally driving drunk, accidentally on drugs, or accidentally caught in the cross fire of a gun....
I'm sure some of these children were probably thinking they were some how invincible and death would be an impossible conclusion....or for some death was the only way they knew to escape the pain from the world they were living in.....
As I sat under the branches I remember hearing about this 15 year old boy who was found dead in the creek a couple of months ago. The media said the body was in the creek for 18 hours before being found. Also, the death was "Accidental".
BTW... Anyone in the city knows that "Accidental" is a nice way of saying,"He committed suicide or he died of a drug overdose".....
But, this memorial tree really saddened me. As I searched for flowers, ribbons or teddy bears..there wasn't any.....what I saw was a magazine picture of a drug pipe and an empty pack of camel cigarette's. Also an empty pack of gum and little pieces of paper with words from what appeared to be this boys friends...
Tears filled my eyes when out of all the notes...there was not one from an adult (or parent).

My heart hurt as I realized the gifts that were left for this child were not pretty flowers or soft teddy bears. Instead nailed to the tree was a picture from an old magazine of a drug pipe and an empty pack of what must have been his favorite smokes...
As I was sitting underneath the tree this song came to mind.."God Bless the Child"
Let's all say goodbye to this unseen boy with a song of love and understanding.....
And let this be a reminder of all the lost children out there crying out to be seen!

Shania Twain - God Bless the Child

Woman Of the Month- by Tara Becker

2008-10-05T15:36:00.001-07:00

It has been crazy lately! Some of you have asked for the article of Woman of the month for WomanOf.com and so here it is. I was also on the radio for an interview and then I will be putting pictures of the book signing that occurred here at Barns & Nobles on Friday (hopefully this week). I want to do a personal post...but, we are down to one computer and everyone wants on it :P GRRRR! If you want to contact me you can also go onto facebook :) Some of you will be surprised by this article...but, for most of you this is something you have already read. And so it is kinda' redundant :P I want to thank you all for all your support over the years...if it wasn't for you, this book would not be complete! I love you guys! God Bless!
Diana Joy

Womanof the Month: Diana Joy

by Tara Becker

When you meet the kind, soft, youthful face of Diana Joy, sister, mother, foster mother, adoptive mother and yes, Grandmother, you would never know the turbulent life she can now call her past.
On September 10, 2003, you would think that Diana had everything going for her. She was a successful business women/speaker with a wonderful husband and 8 children. Two of which she was in the process of adopting. But by the next day, her world would be turned upside down with accusations stemming from her diagnosis with Multiple Personality Disorder (MPD). Diana’s world continued to crumble with social services coming into her home and removing the two foster children, which then triggered flashbacks of her own abusive childhood. She did not know where to turn, but to her journals from so long ago. Advice given from her older sister, to write, will make the monsters and the bad dreams go away. While reading and reliving these memories gave way to the first recollection of Peter. This was just one of her personalities.
This author claims to be no expert in MPD, but what I can tell you and as explained to me by Diana Joy herself is that these personalities saved her life. Each personality would take over to protect her and try to keep her from harm whenever an abusive situation would occur. But what is most powerful is that she is working through her own pain and healing right in front of your eyes on the pages of her recently published book, Looking Through The Eyes Of An Unseen Child.
While she shares with us about her horrible treatment as a young child at home and then in the facility where she spent 3-years “recovering” from MPD, she shows us that none of us need to be ashamed. Looking is Diana’s way of introducing the world to what they don’t or refuse to see. And, that people can change. Multiple personalities is how she coped with the terrible things that happened to her starting at a very early age. It was just her way of coping. A different way of coping. It was one of the six ways that she and her siblings coped. She was one of six.
She has since stripped off her mask and now when she proudly steps into the stage of life, she no longer needs to feel ashamed for there is no shame. Not only does she share with us these personal moments of her life, but is dedicated to teaching every “unseen” child (and adult) that they don’t have to be fearful of removing their masks. She does this with the formation of the Unseen Child Foundation. The Unseen Child Foundation is to provide safe havens for children and young adults. She spearheads this movement by personally going out into the community, juvenile detention centers, prisons, the streets to speak and inform. The Foundation will be conducting its first fundraiser a black-tie affair on Friday, November 7th at 6:00pm at the Grand Hyatt Hotel in Denver.
Stayed tuned as you may be seeing this story on the big screen. As, Diana is currently discussing film options with Hollywood. She’s adamant about society hearing from the people that cannot (or will not) speak. It’s a story that needs to be told, but they need to get it right.
Excerpt from Looking Through The Eyes Of An Unseen Child:
To my oldest daughter…You will never know how much you have helped me come to this point in my life. It is not a birth certificate that made you our daughter, but your big blue eyes and your small smile as you wandered through our apartment building on many late nights years ago. You were only eight when you would be found peeking through our window and knocking at our door. You would always ask the same question, “Can I baby-sit?” At first, I giggled at the thought of such a young girl wanting to care for a boy almost her own age. I wish I would have listened to my heart, and looked in your eyes at that time. Why didn’t I question how such a small child was allowed to wander through the apartments alone…You never used words, then, to explain how much you were hurting. It was a few years later, when you were eleven, that you finally found the courage to tell us of the abuse you were suffering. But, because I had not yet accepted my own past, I denied the truth that you were attempting to share with me. It was my own fear that pushed you to become a runner and live with a shame that wasn’t yours.
My dear daughter, it was the phone call you made at thirteen, from the institution for difficult juveniles, that changed my life. When I saw you, again, your pain mirrored my own, and guilt consumed me at having failed you, just as others had failed me. I decided then that I would use adoption and foster care as my way of helping you and other children to be seen. Still though, it wasn’t until you had children of your own, that I saw your trust in me return to your eyes. You are still my silent child who chooses not to speak of your shame, and so I will now speak for you… It is not your secrets I will reveal, but mine. Thank you for teaching me the greatest lesson of all – because you forgave me, I can find forgiveness for others.
Diana’story reminds us that no one should have to live with the shame of who they are.

Why is is safer to sleep on a park bench than to love someone??!!!

2008-09-20T17:45:00.000-07:00

I just wanted to say "Hi" to all my group members and remind them to spread the news that the book is out and can be purchased at any local book store! If you go to the book store (Barns & Nobles, Borders, etc) and they don't have it on the shelf...PLEASE HAVE THEM ORDER IT?! I am going to be filmed on Monday and so the mini-video will be on my site www.unseenchild.com soon. You will have the opportunity to see what I do and why I continue to go to the streets to help these children. Last weekend Crystal and I were down town and we came across a teenager without any shoes....When I asked,"Where are your shoes?" She responded, "Someone took them while I was sleeping". I immediately reminded her of the safe house across the street and she then began to tell me that the safe house is where someone took her shoes while she was sleeping.... Then she told me that she was going to sleep under the bridge that night "It is much safer there" she said. Anger builds inside me every time I hear the neglect we as a society have towards these children. I need to remind you to PLEASE look into these children's eyes!!!

Years ago I had this child (of 14) stay in my house and one late night she left this letter under my door and was gone before I awoke....

Dear Diana,

I'm sorry I was not truthful with you. I can't explain my reasons why I do the things I do. It has nothing to do with you or anybody I know. I'm putting everyone here at risk. I just feel like I need to run. My mom turned her back on me when I needed her most. I know there are people here for me in life, but not the one main person I need most. You have been so great to me. God knows where I would be without you. You have been nothing but good to me and I just keep fucking up. I will understand if you need to kick me out. Cause I can't stop having sex. It makes me feel wanted, I know that sounds dumb cause of the people I choose to have sex with. But it is true. I can't save myself from it. It's not what I want (but it's what every guy in my life wants). I'm scared to loose anybody. I want to be happy so bad! I wish I could take back everything that has happened to me, but I can't! I just learn to forget! Forgive! I wanted to say I'm sorry and you have helped me. You have made a big difference in my life. Please don't think you didn't help me? You can only do so much. Don't get discouraged. I love you with all my heart! Sorry, I have to get out!!!!

Luv yah

Always!

Life is not always pretty and the words are not ones we want to hear from a child. But, sometimes no matter how hard we try some of these kids would rather sleep on a park bench downtown (or under a bridge) than get close to someone. Because if they get close and actually love someone....that person could hurt them.....So, I believe that instead of locking these kids up and punishing these kids for running away...we need to give them a safe house that they can run to. I received this letter years ago...it opened my eyes to what it is like to look through a child's eyes who has been hurt so bad that being used as a prostitute is safer than living with a family.... I want to let you all know that we are having a fundraiser Oct. 3rd. All of the money will go the Unseen Child Foundation. This Foundation is for the kids on the streets, in the prisons, and to build new shelters...SAFER SHELTERS!! We have not met our goal yet and are asking for sponsors, donations or just anyone who can purchase books so that I can hand them to these kids. We need to give these children hope in life!!! I know my posts are long...but, there is just not enough words to tell you how much I care for these kids and how much they need help!!! You can go to my site www.unseenchild.com and make a donation and I will make sure you receive a receipt and a tax id number. Thanks so much for joining this cause!!!

Copy the banner and spread the news!!!

God bless!

Diana Joy

I am honored by this review!!!! I have meetings and tours next week....but, this is someone who puts kids first..what do you think?

2008-08-30T10:01:00.000-07:00

Dearest Diana,
......so much is going on within me right now after finishing your book. I am running the gamut of emotions from anger to optimism, from a hallowed ache in my middle to elation that you have transcended. Everything is swirling around right now because I feel as if I were there with you at the motel and in the woods, in the car, to getting the candy bar. Your book is so intimate that you can't help but find yourself in it. It is truly a remarkable piece that needs to be heard. I am extremely blessed to have you enter my life by a stroke of divine intervention. There are no mistakes, and I thank you for giving me the honor to take part in your world. I have to read it again...just because! I am so proud of you that you have the strength to share your story so that others can be seen, and know that they are not alone. Like I said the other night you have been blessed with the knowledge that you are bigger than the obstacles that were put in your path.

As far as what I feel this can become in terms of a visual medium, my gut is telling me a film. A raw account of your story that can have a life visually to also help and inspire the world around us. It can and should be done. I feel such a connection to the piece, and will help you in any way possible to get this seen. LOOKING THROGH THE EYES OF AN UNSEEN CHILD is a film.

The work you do today, aside from the book, I feel would be a great documentary raising awareness of the abuse that causes so many to feel unseen, and without voice. They could be a phenomenal 2,3, after the astounding piece that is your book.
Well my new friend, I think of you tonight, and send you my thoughts and prayers. You make this world a better place, please know this! I will talk to you tomorrow.
Love,
James Patric
NYC

Please continue to pray that this project is not about success, but the Unseen Children!!! James Patric doesn't speak about success. I truly see his compassion for the Unseen Children! Pray! Pray! For the right company and for the book to get into the hands of the children & adults who need the words to know that they are not the only unseen. Also, pray that this project is protected by the ones who are committed to the children!!!
*hugs*
Diana Joy

Looking through the eyes of an unseen child and video's...

2008-08-23T13:32:00.001-07:00

I have received so many e-mails questioning if the information is really true....and..YES! My book is finished! Here is what it looks like! I appreciate everybody who is waiting on a book and also those who have ordered more than one...(I know what it is like to tell someone you have bought them something and then wonder yourself if it is ever going to come.)....I realize that for some the waiting has been VERY frustrating... All I can say is, "I love you all for your patience! It is greatly appreciated!!"....even though my patience has been running very thin through this entire process :p
I never imagined how long it would take to print and publish a book until now!!!! I truly believed once a book was written and submitted to a publisher, it would just be a matter of weeks (not many months) before I had it in my hands.....
Hopefully the next book will go much more smoothly :)

So...the answer to the other e-mails (regarding my last post) is YES again...
I have interviewed with 2 television stations.....The idea of making my book into a movie has been discussed with the different production companies...I promise I will keep you up to date if any decisions are made :) It is not something I had every imagined...but, now after talking with some new friends, production company's and my team, I can see how valuable it can to have my book on the screen for people to understand what it is like to look through the eyes of an unseen child. I am so glad now I have a wonderful Agent and team of committed people that will help keep me grounded and focused. Please continue to pray for us as we move forward with any & all business decision....
Well, speaking of team...I have a meeting and need to be there in about 15 minutes :o)
Love you all!
Diana Joy

I have been listening to my music while I have been writing and one of my favorite songs came on....so I just HAVE to play the video!

God Bless the Child!

2008-08-23T10:34:00.000-07:00

Hi Everyone!
I found this video and just had to put this on my blog!
I have a ton to tell you..but, unfortunately we are down to one computer and everyone is fighting over this one! grrrrr!
Check this video out!

Check out this video: Shania Twain - God Bless the Child

God bless!
Diana Joy

LOST IN NEW YORK!!!!

2008-08-15T17:13:00.000-07:00

I'm back!!! I had a wonderful time in New York City!
My mother-in-law is recovering wonderfully from her heart surgery. God gave me an opportunity to sit with her and catch up on the years we have been apart:) And for that I am very thankful!!!

Also, I cannot tell you how great it was to meet so many new people!!!
On Friday (the day after I arrived) I met Aidah. She took me on a tour of HBO Studio's and introduced me to such nice people. Then we talked for hours over a wonderful lunch :p I was so happy when she said she wanted me to come back the following Wednesday!!! We had so much fun! HBO is lucky to have such a special person working for them and I am blessed to have her as my friend :) Thanks Aidah for everything!

I want to say thanks to L. Renée Mitchell for taking me out to eat too :P mmmm! Okay..I hope you all get the picture here...the food in New York City is yummy!!!lol
Renée is the Assistant Vice President at The Dreyfus Corporation located in Grand Central Station. She is such a sweet person. Within the first few minutes of meeting her I could see such compassion in her eyes. As she spoke I could also hear her strong faith in God! We had so much fun talking. And let me tell you...that girl can laugh! lol I'm sure we sounded like two young school girls laughing in the cafe that afternoon! lol I look forward to getting together again soon!

I wanted to let you all know that a lot of the people I met in New York City are members of NAFE (National Association for Female Executives). Ladies! If you don't belong to NAFE...YOU HAVE TO! It is a great way to network and be seen :)

I also want to let you know that I can't even count how many times I got lost :o)
The subway is sooooo confusing. I must say though that I loved it when people came on the train to sing. I don't have any actual pictures or video's of them...but, someone sent me this video. This will give you an idea of how life is in NYC...

I hope you enjoyed the video :)))
Until the next post...((BIG HUGS))
Diana Joy

Looking Through the Eyes of an Unseen Child is almost here!!!!

2008-07-19T15:14:00.000-07:00

Okay guys....I've received so many e-mails inviting me to speak about the book! I am soooo excited that I can hardly sit still! The book comes out in just 2 weeks!!!! And this seems to be the longest 2 weeks of my life :p I can't wait until those who have ordered my book have it in there hands!!! I feel like I could stand on a mountain and yell to a nation that there is hope and healing through the words written throughout these pages! Tears come to my eyes as I realize it is finished and I have nothing to be ashamed of!! I will now not only stand up and speak for me, but for all the children and adults who are victims of abuse!!! As I write, I see all the faces of the children who are waiting for you all to read the words that they have kept hidden in their hearts. Please don't think that if you buy this book it is for just me....it is for all the children who have been unseen for so long...sitting in the shadows of life....waiting for someone to see them! I am asking you to order a book...if not for yourself...buy it for a loved one or a friend....
As I sat talking to my brother last night I realized that from this time forward we will no longer live as strangers...but, now (after over 30 years) we will live as brother and sister! If this book brought us together after all these years, imagine what it can do for so many more lost and broken families!!!
My younger brother, Sara and I are already getting prepared for the next year. We have a very busy 6 months ahead of us. We have meetings this week and next with organizations and sponsors. Then the speaking begins and book signings. To slow things down a bit my family and I leave for New York City August 7th through the 14th. I can't wait to see my in laws!!! They live in Queens.
While I am there I will be meeting with some women from NAFE. NAFE stands for National Association For Female Executives. It is an awesome organization and a honor to be asked to speak with some of the women who make NAFE so successful. Go to their site: http://www.nafe.com/ This is a great way to network ladies!!
Also, while I am in NYC I have been given the invitation to tour HBO studio's. I have always wondered how HBO works....I guess I will find out in just a few weeks. I look forward to getting to know the nice woman who invited me :) Thanks Aidah! She contacted me through the program "Linkin". She has worked with HBO for 10 years and from our phone conversation and e-mails she has a heart full of compassion for the unseen children.
Last week my brother, Sara and I met with the wonderful women from "WomenOf.com." I gave the Marketing Director the book after the meeting and she called me a couple of days later letting me know how much it has changed her life. Also, she said, "We definitely need to buy stock in Kleenex!" lol Be sure and check out their site: http://womenof.com/ Especially this fall because I will be the woman of the month :o)
This fall I will be flying to LA for a television (& radio) interview by "An Empowered Woman, Inc."
I look forward to traveling to the west coast and walking along the beach :))) God is an awesome God! It seems like my world is opening up for the first time in so many years! Please go to http://www.anempoweredwoman.com/ and hear the stories from some of the women who have over come some amazing obstacle's and have become successful.
Okay...My younger brother wanted me to tell you that I have been asked to speak on the Carnival Cruise Feb. 12th for four nights and five days. The Cruise is to Mexico. I was invited by the Women's Business Link Check out their site: http://www.womensbusinesslink.org/wbl/ Husbands and significant others are also invited.....
I was going to wait until I had an itinerary put on my site...but, I couldn't wait! I am counting the days until we go because this will be the first time my husband and I have had alone time together (without kids) in over twenty years! I think it is awesome that it will be Valentines week!!!
My kids want to watch a movie, so it is time to say goodbye :)
Thank you all for your prayers and always standing by my side through the toughest of times. So many of you have never even met me in person....but, some where deep inside I know that it won't be long before we see each other face to face :))) I will be scheduling book signings soon!!!
God bless!
Diana Joy
BTW
Please copy and paste the banner below and put it on your blog:)))
*hugs*
DJ

COPY AND PASTE THIS BANNER AND PUT IT ON YOUR BLOG!!

2008-07-14T21:58:00.001-07:00

My baby brother is here!!!!!

2008-07-14T20:49:00.000-07:00

Hi Everyone!
It has been so crazy here this summer! I have met so many people and have had the opportunity to share my story with them! I am already being scheduled for speaking. I am also scheduled to be interviewed (both tv & radio) in LA & NYC. I will also be speaking on a cruise on Feb. 12th 2008! My husband was so happy to hear that he could travel with me on a cruise! It will be our first vacation together alone in 15 years!
I caught up with Susie McEntire Luchsinger 2 weeks ago in Brush Colorado. It was a couple of hours before her concert. After all the e-mails over the last 2 years it was nice to finally sit and chat with her. Her new songs are so inspiring that I can't wait for her new cd!!! Once again people, go to her site www.susieluchsinger.com.
Speaking of my little brother....I don't think I had a chance to tell you all he is here in Denver and is wanting to get involved in raising money for safe houses for children. We finally are together after 30 years!!!! I was so afraid to meet him for the first time. All I kept thinking was, "Does he still have blond hair? Oh God! Please don't let me cry! Lord help me recognize my baby brother and not make a fool out of myself by running up to some random person!" It was 1:00 am when we finally found each other and yes! I cried like a baby as he held me!!! I couldn't believe my once baby brother was much taller than me!!! I know the next question you are all wondering is, "Has he read the book?" He has read the book and is ready to hit the road to market it. I leave for NYC on August 8, and from there I will be going to LA to do a Television/Radio interview on November 14th-16th! God is so good! I have been sick and have had no time to set up appointments and God is making sure that I know He is right by my side guiding me each step of the way. Each time I speak, I feel Him standing beside me! I am surprised with the response people are having....including my own family! I no longer feel like I am all alone telling my story....when I go to write or answer the e-mails it is so reassuring to know that my younger brother is not afraid to stand with me and speak so that unseen children will be seen. I have been trying to upload a picture of my younger brother, but, blogger is not working. I will try again soon :)
God bless,
*hugs*
Diana Joy

The new banner is here!!!!

2008-06-05T18:49:00.001-07:00

Here is the new banner for my book! I want to thank my dear friend Wendy Barr for making the banner :)))) I love you Wendy!!!! I should have the banner codes in the next day or two. Then feel free to copy and paste people!!! hehehehe!
I also want to let you all know that I am now addicted to this site called "Linkedin" http://www.linkedin.com/home I have met so many incredible people on this site! You have to check it out!!!
Also, Sara and I are working day and night promoting this book. It may seem as if I am complaining ......but it is exactly the opposite! It doesn't feel like work! I absolutely love meeting new people and hearing their stories. Just when I think, "That has to be the most amazing story of survival!" Some one else will come up to me and knock me off my feet with yet another testimony of courage and endurance! I am so excited at how many men and women are choosing to join together and support one another to begin the healing process!
Sara and I had the chance to speak at the Christian Writers Conference in Estes Park, Colorado this spring. It was so powerful! Thank you so much Marlene for the opportunity. Please go to http://www.writehisanswer.com/ and read of all the wonderful work Marlene is doing!!!
My prayer is that as this book hits the stores all of the people who contributed their art, poetry, and journals will realize that they no longer have to live in the past....They too can grow and enjoy life.
My only frustration from this week is that there is not enough time in the day to get back to everyone. I can't wait until this weekend! I will have a chance on Saturday night to sit quietly and answer your e-mails :) So keep them coming!!!!
God bless you all!
*hugs*
Diana Joy
BTW
I hope to post pictures of my son Josiah & his wife Abby's wedding as soon as I get my hands on them! hehehe!

JUST A MOM?

2008-05-28T17:19:00.000-07:00

Hi Everyone! I am so sorry I have been so busy :P
I want you to all know that you are always in my thoughts, even when I don't have a chance to blog. Also, I want to let 4whatit's worth that I am praying for her every day! Go to my links and see what a amazing woman she is! There is another woman who is going through alot and I would love it if you would check out her site "susieluchsinger.com" She has had so much happen to her over the last year and she could use your love and support. Especially now....her divorce is final and we all know how painful and complicated things can be going through divorce. Susie Luchsinger is a woman with such a big heart. Please drop her a note or ask what you can do for her....she has always been there for me....be there for Susie today!
I need to go and get some posters up (to advertise my book) It has been crazy! I have had so many opportunities to speak and have enjoyed getting to know people from around the US!
Here is a letter that Janey DeMeo (from Orphans First) sent me....
I loved it!

JUST A MOM?
A woman, renewing her driver's license at the County Clerk 's office,was asked by the woman recorder to state her occupation.
She hesitated, uncertain how to classify herself. '
What I mean is,' explained the recorder, 'do you have a job or are you just a ?''
Of course I have a job,' snapped the woman.' I'm a Mom.''We don't list 'Mom' as an occupation,'housewife' covers it,'Said the recorder emphatically.
I forgot all about her story until one day I found myself in the same situation,
this time at our own Town Hall. The Clerk was obviously a career woman, poised, efficient, and possessed of a high sounding title like,'Official Interrogator' or 'Town Registrar.'' What is your occupation?' she probed. What made me say it? I do not know. The words simply popped out. 'I'm a Research Associate in the field ofChild Development and Human Relations.' The clerk paused, ball-point pen frozen in midair andlooked up as though she had not heard right. I repeated the title slowly emphasizing the most significant words. Then I stared with wonder as my pronouncement was written, in bold, black ink on the official questionnaire. 'Might I ask,' said the clerk with new interest,'just what you do in your field?' Coolly, without any trace of fluster in my voice, I heard myself reply,' I have a continuing program of research,(what mother doesn't) In the laboratory and in the field, (normally I would have said indoors and out). I'm working for my Masters, (first the Lord and then the whole family) and already have four credits (all daughters). Of course, the job is one of the most demanding in the humanities,(any mother care to disagree?) and I often work 14 hours a day, (24 is more like it). But the job is more challenging than most run-of-the-mill careersand the rewards are more of a satisfaction rather than just money.' There was an increasing note of respect in the clerk's voice as shecompleted the form, stood up, and personally ushered me to the door. As I drove into our driveway, buoyed up by my glamorous new career, I was greeted by my lab assistants -- ages 13, 7, and 3. Upstairs I could hear our new experimental model, (a 6 month old baby) in the child development program, testing out a new vocal pattern. I felt I had scored a beat on bureaucracy! And I had gone on the official records as someone moredistinguished and indispensable to mankind than 'just another Mom.' Motherhood! What a glorious career! Especially when there's a title on the door.
Does this make grandmothers 'Senior Research associates in the field of Child Development and Human Relations'
And great grandmothers'Executive Senior Research Associates?' I think so!!!
I also think it makes Aunts 'Associate Research Assistants.'Please send this to another Mom,Grandmother, Aunt, And other friends you know. May your troubles
be less, Your blessings be more, And nothing but happiness come through your door! AMEN!!
God bless you all!
Diana Joy

All right! Already! You can buy the book now!!! hehehe

2008-05-01T18:34:00.001-07:00

Looking through the Eyes of an Unseen Child (by Diana Joy) is FINALLY FINISHED! It's in the hands of the publisher!!!!
Thank you SO MUCH for all your support over the last five years – your emails, phone calls, prayers, and love is what has kept me, Sara, Jenny, and the rest of the team going! Thank you for being a part of this project, without you this book would not be touching so many hearts all over the world!
Remember, it only takes the love of one person to help a child be seen!

Press the button on the left side of this blog please!!???
Love you all!
Diana Joy

Sometimes our families are the last ones we tell how much we love them....

2008-04-22T16:38:00.000-07:00

The first time I saw this I must admit I cried.....Thanks Susie for your big heart!
I wanted to go to each of my family members and tell them I love them and shout out that I have always loved them!!!....Please continue to pray that the book I wrote does just that...it speaks to each of my siblings...and my mother...
Just think! Now that my book is being published it won't be long and a family will be seen...a mother will be forgiven...and six siblings will be seen in a way that a person has no choice but to hold their hand throughout the pages and see who they really are! Also, the childrens art, poetry, and journals (the 2nd part of the book) will be seen too!!!!!
Thanks for reminding us Susie that...
"Sometimes we forget to tell the ones who are closest to us that we love them and that we also need to reach out to those people who have no love in their life..
Also, Don't forget the most important words Susie said at the end of the video, "At the end of the day we should give thanks and pray to the One the only One"
Thanks God!
*hugs* to all of you!
I have sooooo much to say...and such little time :o)
God bless!
Diana Joy

Wow! What a testimony!

2008-04-18T19:27:00.000-07:00

I was on my way to work and heard this story! I had to share it with you all!!!
I will be doing my own video hopefully soon. I now have a wonderful boss at Edward Jones and we have A TON of work to do to open this office back up!!! Be sure and purchase your book on my site www.unseenchild.com! It comes out this summer!!!!
*hugs*
God bless you all!
Diana Joy

Yeah!!! The link is up to order my book!!!!

2008-04-11T20:18:00.000-07:00

Hi everyone! My dear friend Janey called the other day. She always knows when something is not quite right...especially if I don't call her or write within a week or two. Thank you Janey for always being there :) When she called it reminded me that I haven't showed you all her book! It is a great book! You can find more about it at http://janey-demeo.blogspot.com/. Heaven Help Me Raise These Children. Also, I wanted to say thanks to all of you and I am so sorry I haven't posted like I have promised! Once again I came down with something yucky:P The poor doctors at Boulder Medical Urgent Care! All I have to say is "Thanks for putting up with me for four days!" I am feeling much better now :) My lipids levels(from my blood) are still high...but they are lower than they were:) Please pray for me as I see another blood specialist in May. Also....the word is out....YES! I had another heart surgery March 23.....once again another stint :(..so now I have 5 stints...I am okay now and trying to take it easy. As I looked at the last video...my face still looks a little pale...and my hair looks horrible! lol
I think it's because of the medicine they gave me before they knocked me out! My friend Diane Maes said when they put you under (for surgery) the chemicals mess with your hair....obviously it did mine!!! hahahaha
Sara and I hope to be doing another post this week!!!! Good news!!!! The link is up to order my book!!!! Be sure and go to my site www.unseenchild.com and go to my store! My book is Looking Through the Eyes of an Unseen Child. You can buy Janey's book there too ;) Also, there are some other great writers and of course Susie McEntire Luchsingers CD's!!!-www.susieluchsinger.com
God bless you guys and stay tuned!
Love,
Diana Joy

Susie McEntire Luchsingers CD

It's me! Live on Web Cam!!! hehehe

2008-03-30T17:31:00.000-07:00

Perhaps we may stumble.....

2008-03-10T07:52:00.000-07:00

My sister in-law sent this to me last night after I had been working all weekend on the book. I loved it!
Awesome!! We complain about the cross we bear but don't realize it is preparing us for the dip in the road that God can see and we can't.Whatever your cross, whatever your pain,there will always be sunshine, after the rain.... Perhaps you may stumble, perhaps even fall; But God's always ready, to answer your call...He knows every heartache, sees every tear, a word from His lips, can calm every fear...Your sorrows may linger, throughout the night, But suddenly vanish, dawn's early light... The Savior is waiting, somewhere above,to give you His grace, and send you His love...God promises a safe landing, not a calm passage.
God bless!
Have a wonderful week!
Diana Joy

2008-03-04T14:33:00.000-08:00

Hi Everyone!
A blogger named "Cat" left me a comment yesterday and I went to find her and realized she was a young girl of 15. Here is her link: http://greeneggsandham-cat.blogspot.com/ It is one of the most powerful blogs I have read! I have a few child bloggers that I visit...but, I just never have time to comment. When you have a chance stop by and check her blog out :)....maybe even leave a comment:)
God bless,
Diana Joy

Thanks for all your prayers!!!

2008-02-25T17:51:00.000-08:00

Hi Everyone!
I apologize for not getting back to you all sooner. I wanted to blog... But, I'm not gonna lie...It's been a tough few weeks....
I am doing much better now. My spirits are high and I am now working like crazy on the book! Sara and I hope to hand it to Advantage Publishers by Monday!!!! PRAISE GOD!!! There is a light at the end of the tunnel!!! :o) PLEASE KEEP PRAYING FOR THIS BOOK! I was talking to my husband the other day and as we were discussing the details of the book, I found myself saying, "All I know is that God has asked me to share my life for that one person out there waiting to hear about how God can heal! And I can't wait to say to God...IT IS FINISHED!!!" There are no words powerful enough to explain how much joy I feel the closer I get to the conclusion of the book!!!! No matter what the Doctors say about my body....I feel like I am healing from deep within my soul!!!
I don't want to ignore the fact that some of you have come to my blog daily and sent e-mails asking if I am ok and what is wrong. So to not address it is wrong. Over the last month a song has been repeating in my mind. Those words sure apply to my life now...
The words are "What do you say in a moment like this? When you can't find the words to tell it like it is. Just close your eyes and let your heart lead the way
Oh what do you say...
So, I guess I will just let my heart lead the way.....
The Doctors told me that I have Lipoprotien-a and Cerebral cavernous malformations. I am not sure what all of this means? Please be patient with me? I have had so many Doctors throwing so much information at me that my husband and I have taken a break and decided to give it to God. I will show you one the pictures the Doctors have shown me. And give you a general definition of the illness...By-the-way the surgeon put the red on the MRI to point out where the bleeding is beginning. I have to giggle because at first I thought the MRI was now in color! lol The hole is a "Cerebral cavernous malformation".
Here is the upper right part of my brain....One of my kids said, "Mom, it's okay...we always knew you had a few holes in your head". lol I don't want to make light of it...but, sometimes that is the only way I can get through all of this :)

The dark cavity is where I have bleeding....I have two more at the bottom of my brain. One on the right and one on the left. It looks like I will be going back in for brain surgery....but the doctors said I have to get stable from heart surgery....Only God knows what could happen between now and then :) God can heal!!! I want you all to know that my head does not hurt at all and I am feeling much better. Lipoprotien-a is when the lipid levels in your blood are too high and it can cause clotting. The highest it can go is 30...well my levels are over 200! This means that my blood is clotting in places (like my heart) and bleeding in places (like my brain). Right now I would appreciate a lot of prayers :) But, for now life is back to the usual...I am back at work (Edward Jones) and working on the book (of course). I also want to say thanks to all those wonderful people who work for Edward Jones :) Their positive attitude and support has been more than I could ask for. Well....I need to get going....Dave turns 45 tomorrow and he wants to go out as a family. I need to get on the phone and make sure everybody doesn't forget!
Diane your wonderful for keeping everybody up to date :) Thanks!!!!! (BIG HUG))
God bless you all!
*hugs*
Diana Joy

Strength in Prayers for Diana Joy

2008-01-08T21:44:00.000-08:00

Hello all,
I want to let everyone know that Diana Joy has been so very ill many new issues have arrived. Her pain has been great for some time now and more problems have occurred within her brain. Also she has developed shingles due to the breaking down of her physical fight, causing more problems. She has some great doctors treating her now and hopefully they will find answers to so many questions. Although she is going through so much right now she still finds the might and will to smile and laugh. Her bravery is astounding and truly wonderful. May God bless her and keep her strong to overcome the fight she has been going through with her health and heal her with victory restoring her from her bed of illness.
1 Peter 4:12,13
Dear friends, do not be surprise at the painful trial you are suffering, as though something strange were happening to you but rejoice that you participate in the sufferings of Christ so that you may be overjoyed when his glory is revealed.
All my love and prayers
Diane Maes

Alyssa & Haley wants to wish us all a "Merry Christmas"!!!

2007-12-24T14:03:00.000-08:00

Alyssa (my daughter) and Haley (her best friend) did this video. I laughed so hard!!!

Believe it or not my daughter is the silly one with the blond hair! BTW: It's her natural color!!! lol

My twin sister has blond hair too. These two goof balls got bored last night and decided to make a video for their spanish class. I have to admit it looks a lot more fun than writing a paper eh?!

Merry Christmas everyone!!!!

God bless!

Diana Joy

Alyssa & Haley

and the gang!

FELIZ-NAVIDAD-56 - Get Video Code

Moms sayings...

2007-12-23T14:51:00.001-08:00

Yes! I am still surfing the net and I found myself laughing at some of the video's people do!!!Janey sent this to me and I just had to share it with you all! lol YOU HAVE TO CHECK OUT HER SITE OUT!!! http://www.anitarenfroe.com/

Thanks Janey for sending it my way! :)
DJ

Heather Martin - When Are You Coming Home

2007-12-23T14:00:00.001-08:00

I found this video about 6 months ago. As Christmas approaches I think this video is very appropriate. Please pray for all the men and women sacrificing their lives so that we can be safe!
God Bless!!!!
Diana Joy

Psalms 23!!!

2007-12-16T19:07:00.000-08:00

Hi Everyone!!!!
I was visiting one of my favorite sites God Tube and look what I found. I'm tellin' you.. I could watch these video's forever!!! Also, I am ordering some of the dvds and so you will all have to check back in every once in awhile to hear my reviews :) I saw this video and this little girl melted my heart! She said Psalms 23 with such determination!!! It was just what I needed to hear...

So, everyone please check out this new site www.godtube.com!!!

God bless!
Diana Joy
BTW...
Denise has been working very hard on my site. We should have a new site up and going in the next day or two!!!!
Have a good week!
*hugs*

I can't wait to see this movie!!!!

2007-12-08T21:45:00.000-08:00

I was reading my friend Janey's blog - http://janey-demeo.blogspot.com/ . I noticed that she recommended this movie. This looks like a "must see movie"!!!! Also, I love this GODTUBE blog. It is so cool. It's about time we finally have a safe place to go to look for wholesome movies! Check it out!!!

Then They Do...That's How It Is!!!

2007-11-25T20:32:00.000-08:00

Here are the Albertsens for 2007!!

Ashley (17)
Josiah (22)

soon to be wife

Abby

Victoria Joy (7)

Nicole (16)

Grandson Gabe

and Susie.

My daughter Savannah.

Gena (24)

Ginger (21)

Here is Alyssa (15)

Micah & Dano (26)

Baby James (3) Grandson

The twins Josiah (right) & Elijah (left) - 4 yrs

Hi Everyone!!I hope you all had a wonderful Thanksgiving :)

I sure did! Even though the entire gang wasn't able to be with us this year, we had the opportunity to have Josiah and Abby, Dano and her family and my niece Ariel... And of course the youngest of the bunch Alyssa and Savannah! I am soooo thankful for my family!!!!

This is the first year I actually feel like I am getting up there, out there, or just plain old! lol It all started when Dano called and hesitantly told me that she would be going to Chicago...Then she slipped in that Josiah would be going to California....Gena and Ginger would be in Japan...I felt like I was going to cry until she said, "Mom, we have decided that you, dad, and the girls should go and see the rest of the family in New York. My heart started to pound as I realized that Dave and I are almost there....you know...the age in which we don't have to rent a 15 passenger van to load everyone up to take a vacation. The thought of flying somewhere could now be a possibility!!!

It felt so strange...you know how you call each child's name outlowd (to remind yourself where they are and what they are up to)...this time the check list in my head went like this: Josiah and Abby are going to California (with her family). Dano and her family are going to Chicago (see her grandmother). Ashley will be at Job Corps in Montana. Nicole will be with her Grandparents. Ginger will be with her sister (Gena) in Japan. And Dave, Alyssa, Savannah, and I will be here for Christmas!!! I don't know what we will do for Christmas...my niece will be with us and so most likely we will be here. The four of us talked about different ideas for Christmas today and thought it would be nice to leave the day after Christmas with the girls (Alyssa & Savannah)....I do want the chance to have Christmas with my neice :)

Once again I thought of a song...Yeah! It's from Susie Luchsinger....(I can't help it! Her songs touch me like none other!)

Then They Do...

In the early rush of morning,

Trying to get the kids to school: One's hanging on my shirt-tail,

Another's locked up in her room.

And I'm yelling up the stairs: "Stop worrying 'bout your hair, you look fine.

"Then they're fightin' in the backseat, And I'm playing referee.

Now someone's gotta go, The moment that we leave.

And everybody's late,

I swear that I can't wait till they grow up.

Then they do, and that's how it is.

It's just quiet in the mornin', Can't believe how much you miss,

All they do and all they did.

You want all the dreams they dreamed of to come true: Then they do.

Now the youngest is starting college, She'll be leavin' in the Fall.

And Brianna's latest boyfriend, Called to ask if we could talk.

And I got the impression, That he's about to pop the question any day.

I look over at their pictures, Sittin' in their frames.

I see them as babies: I guess that'll never change.

You pray all their lives, That someday they will find happiness.

Then they do, and that's how it is.

It's just quiet in the mornin', Can't believe how much you miss,

All they do and all they did.

You want all the dreams they dreamed of to come true: Then they do.

No more Monday PTA's, No carpools, or soccer games.

Your work is done. Now you've got time that's all your own.

You've been waitin' for so long, For those days to come.

Then they do, and that's how it is. It's just quiet in the mornin',

Can't believe how much you miss, All they do and all they did.

You want all the dreams they dreamed of to come true:

Then they do. Ah, then they do.

If you don't have this CD you absolutely have to go get it!

So for Thanksgiving I am thankful for all my children! I am thankful for the ones that have grown....

And I am also thankful that I have Alyssa and Savannah!

I guess God knew that giving them all up so fast would be too hard for me...and so He left me 2 girls to cherish for a few more years!!!!

AND CHERISH I WILL!!!

My husband and I pray all their dreams they dreamed of to come true!!

And then they will. Ah, then they will.....

I hope you all have a wonderful Christmas!

God bless!

Diana Joy

BTW

To my good buddy Lyss (another blogger)...

I PROMISE TO WRITE ABOUT MY LIFE IN THE DUMBSTER SOON!!

PLEASE FORGIVE ME??!! LOL

Love ya Lyss!

Also, It is 12:00 am on Sunday....so if this post looks funny...it's 'cause I'm exhausted :p

WHAT'S UP DOC????

2007-10-25T18:20:00.000-07:00

Hi everyone!!! Thanks soooooo much for all your thoughts and prayers!

I am doing much better. It took one more hospital stay for them to get everything working great again :) One day after the last post I started having trouble breathing and needed to go back to the hospital. The doctor went in and checked my heart...and after the surgery I was soooooo sick! My body doesn't like all the meds! blah!! :P!

I feel much better now and it is amazing how much I took breathing for granted! I am now not only breathing again..lol ..I am back at work and loving it! Also, I now have a new set of Doctors. I have interviewed several doctors over the last week as I was attempting to find the one doc. that is willing to be proactive in helping me.

BTW....I can't believe some of those docs are actually called MD's!!! I met with this one doctor and she had a cell phone on her the entire time she was meeting with me...she asked me a few questions...and then would answer her phone!!! I couldn't believe it! HOW RUDE!!!)

I could tell you some nightmare stories about all the doctors I have come across in the last month...

but, I really just want to give you all some information as to what the plan is now. I was able to find this AWESOME Doctor!!! She actually listened to me and asked about my family's history of blood problems...etc.

What a concept? Listen to the patient? lol So many docs just don't listen to what the patient is saying....(okay, I will step down from my soap box ) lol I will save that topic for another book...can't you see it? Looking through the eyes of the unseen patient! lol hahahahaha

Anyway, please continue to pray for me and for the wonderful Docs that are now working closely to help me heal :) Especially pray for Dr. Christiansen as she will be my primary doc to oversee everything :)

I am soooo thankful for all of you!

God bless you all!

Diana Joy

BTW

I will try and stop by and see everyone this week:)

(((hugs)))

A Day In The Life Of Diana Joy!!!!

2007-10-12T16:11:00.000-07:00

Well....I thought I would share once again "A Day In The Life Of Diana Joy" (I thought it would be more dramatic if I put it in quotations and capitalized the first letter of each word) lol
Thanks sooooo much for all your prayers!!!!
It has been a difficult month.... but, I have survived and ready to tackle the next challenge.....
In the last 2 weeks I have been struggling with pain throughout my back, shoulder blades, left arm, left hand, and my jaw. I went to 3 hospitals and guess what I got in the third hospital???
(I feel like at this point I should yell"A baby girl") lol
But, noooo, It was only 4 stints in my heart :p
Yippee!!!
Now I have my pipes cleaned and I'm ready to take on the world!!! hehehehhe
I make light of the situation now...but, I do realize that it was "touch and go" for about a week. During this time I felt myself slipping. I'm not sure if it was all of the medication that caused my depression...all I do know is that through it all God was there for me..(even when I didn't feel Him) He was there. He was with me driving to the hospital and holding me as I was hanging onto the sides of the surgery table (yes, I insisted on staying awake, ...I have a little bit of a control issue) lol...anyway, I was on the table for 5 hours and during that time I prayed and prayed and prayed!!! I have no doubt that He was listening and had the right Doctors, at the right hospital, at the right time!!!!....and oh yeah...the right pain medication! lol A friend of mine told me once, "When you find yourself down or depressed, start to say "Thank you God". So that is exactly what I have done over the last few days.....all the way up to today :) First I absolutely have to say "Mega Thanks" to my boss from Edward Jones. His name is Ryan Russell. As you all know, if I'm not doing something...I feel very frustrated! He continues to remind me to stop and take care of myself. And guess what? He loves the Lord!!! (another thing to be thankful for)
I thank each one of you for always being there to listen to my somewhat boring grandma stories...my dramatic video's from youtube and my drama from work..hehehehe the ups and downs of writing a book :p
You are always there for me when I need you...being supportive, loving, and honest!
Everyone who knows me, knows I love country music and I love the Lord :) Before each hospitalization I will take my healing selection of cds. And of course Susie Luchsingers CD's are always on the top!!! I can close my eyes and hear the old hymnals...
If you don't have any of Susie's cds, go to her link, http://www.susieluchsinger.com/. or you can go to http://www.unseenchild.com/ and go to "Go shopping". You can find all of Susie's stuff there :)
I was soooooo down one day and e-mailed a few of my friends and asked for prayer....
It was sooooo awesome when I got their e-mails...
I chuckled to myself when I opened Susie's. She has a gentle way of tellin' ya to focus on the good that God has given ya'...Thanks for the gentle reminder Susie!!!!
Here's Susie's e-mail :) She's a kind woman with a big heart!

Dear Diana,
I will pray for you - it is so difficult to deal with life when you're feeling drained and it effects you emotionally, spiritually, and physically.
You have got to rest and give yourself time to recover and get strong. I pray you will do this and make the best of your "down time"! Just turn it around and think of it as "rejuvenating time".
Love, Susie

Thanks Susie! I was able to give myself permission to rest...and to turn the bad into good :p

Here is a copy of Susie's latest cd!!! btw:I'm really trying not to act like a fan of hers!! lol hahahaha

And here is an e-mail from my dear friend Janey!!! When I opened it up I had to laugh!!! You have to check the video out!!!!

Diana Joy,

For those moms & grandmoms (or dads) who just need a good laugh. You'll love this. And, oh, how true it is.This is worth seeing. Go to www.youtube.com and type in William Tell Overture for moms. Hilarious! The life of a mom!

Thanks Janey!!! I needed the laugh!!!! hahahahahahaha!!!!
Here is Janey's contact info:
Janey L. DeMeoFounder/director of Orphans First - www.orphansfirst.org freelance writer, author of Heaven Help Me Raise These Children!Biblical Direction for Practical Parenting Issues.
www.JaneyDeMeo.com
http://janey-demeo.blogspot.com
http://www.myspace.comorphansfirst.com
http://www.myspace.com/janeydemeo.com

I can't help it! I'm Janey's biggest fan too :) lol

As most of you know Susie has a sister. It is Reba McEntire. It just so happens that a week or two before my surgery I put a video on my blog by Susie's sister.
For days after the surgery I felt such reassurance from these words too. I am putting it on my blog in words (and not video).....I just find the words so powerful!!!

I'm tellin' ya'....
I love country music and I love the Lord! What a wonderful combination!!!

"I'll be"

When darkness falls upon your heart and soul
I'll be the light that shines for you
When you forget how beautiful you are
I'll be there to remind you.
When you can't find your way, I'll find my way to you.
When troubles come around, I will come to you.
I'll be your shoulder...When you need someone to lean on.
Be your shelter...When you need someone to see you through.
I'll be there to carry you. I'll be there.
I'll be the rock that will be strong for you.
The one that will hold on to you.
When you feel that rain falling down.
When there's nobody else around. I'll be.
And when you're there with no one there to hold.
I'll be the arms that reach for you.
And when you feel your faith is running low.
I'll be there to believe in you.
When all you find are lies..I'll be the truth you need
When you need someone to run to, You can run to me
I'll be your shoulder When you need someone to lean on.
Be your shelter When you need someone to see you through
I'll be there to carry you.
I'll be there.
I'll be the rock that will be strong for you.
The one that will hold on to you.
When you feel that rain falling down.
When there's nobody else around. I'll be.
I'll be the sun, When your heart's filled with rain.
I'll be the one to chase the rain away.
I'll be your shoulder, When you need someone to lean on.
Be your shelter, When you need someone to see you through
I'll be there to carry you.
I'll be there.
I'll be the rock that will be strong for you. The one that will hold on to you. When you feel that rain falling down.
When there's nobody else around. I'll be. I'll be.

God was there..and He is here!!!
AMEN!!!
Love you all!!!!

I think I'm done bloggin' today! I hope you all weren't toooooo bored and just skimmed to the bottom of this page to check out the comments:) hehehehe
Love,
Diana Joy

Diana Joy

2007-10-06T18:38:00.001-07:00

My dear friend Diana has had heart surgery, it was successful after 5 hours. She has 4 stents and will be going in for further study to try and find reasons for what is happening, she will be in physical therapy 3 times a week. Please keep her in your prayers!! I spoke with her tonight and she is tired but her joyful self. I will keep you posted with any more news. I will also let her know of the comments left.
Continue to pray the book comes out by Christmas, with Diana's determination and Gods WILL I'm sure it will happen by then. She has many people who love her and are praying for a quick recovery!
Diane Maes
staff advisor of the Unseen Child Foundation

And what color of hair are we going to have today Alyssa?

2007-09-01T20:14:00.002-07:00

Here is Alyssa and her friends just over the last 2 months! lol It seems like lately it is NOT "What am I going to wear today?" But instead it's "What hair color am I going to wear today?" And check out these glasses?!! Boy will we have a good laugh in about 20 years! lol They look like what we used to wear in the 80's.....

Notice the myspace pictures....She takes them pretty good don't ya think! Oh yes...my daughter the myspace queen :) lol

And last but not least the blue hair! She came home with this color the other day! The night before pictures!! lol So her father and I ordered an 8-11 pic!!!! lol
Okay...I need to go to bed. I have to get up and go to Sara's. My weekend is over....it's time to get back to work on the book :]]]
I know I blogged a ton tonight...but, I just HAD to take time and catch up on all my blogger friends. I truly miss you all!!! Keep praying for me and the book!!! I really want to be done by the end of this month.....YES! I CAN'T BELIEVE IT! TODAY IS SEPTEMBER 1!!! KEEP PRAYING!!! September 30th is not that far away!!!
God bless you all!
*hugs*
Diana Joy

Reba McEntire - I'll Be (Live)

2007-09-01T20:14:00.001-07:00

I love the words to this song! I told you....
I LOVE YOUTUBE!!! lol

I can only imagine

2007-09-01T18:58:00.001-07:00

I accidentally found this video. I never really listen to her music. But, after this video, I can't wait to go to the music store and find her latest cd!!! I love it when Wynonna Judd says,” My mom used to say,” Honey let them see the brokenness...let them see the crack in your armor...that's how the light gets out...."
OMGoodness!!!
GULP! CHOKE!! HOLD BACK THE TEARS!!!
WOW! THAT IS SO POWERFUL!!!!
I don’t even know the woman and yet I love her!!! I went searching for some of her old video’s and I can tell why she said she didn’t like who she was…I'm not saying she was a bad person...she just seemed angry and confused.....BTW in this video she is holding back her tears and so yes, her voice is cracking and she is a little off pitch...if you want to hear Wynonna (when she is not so emotional) listen to the music from her latest cd. It sounds great!

When I went to google Wynonna this is the first thing I found!

Judd Says She Was Shocked by Husband's Arrest

Country star Wynonna Judd was left in a state of shock when she found out her husband D.R. Roach was arrested for aggravated sexual battery against a minor earlier this year.

The singer filed for divorce from Roach just days after he was arrested and charged with three counts of battery against a 13-year-old in March.

Judd describes her reaction as one of "disbelief and shock," telling Ladies' Home Journal, "These are things that you read about and see on the news about people, and you think to yourself, 'Never in my family.'"

The couple, who wed in 2003, had been estranged since December, and Roach entered rehab to battle alcoholism in February.

All I can say is PRAY FOR THIS POOR WOMAN?! She did this video AFTER her husband was arrested.
It is moments like this that I am reminded why I am writing this book!!!! It makes me soooooo angry that the first thing I read about Wynonna was the horrible state she was in and not how God was using her!!!!
SO, TO WYNONNA!!! HANG IN THERE! GOD'S USING YOU!!!

PRAY MY BOOK IS OUT BY CHRISTMAS!!!???

2007-08-22T22:34:00.001-07:00

Hi everyone!!!

I am sorry I haven't been blogging....

I have been working sooooo hard on the book :p

Sara and I have been working days, nights, and weekends to get this book done by the end of September!

Then I hope and pray to have it out by Christmas!!!!

Please pray that I will be able to stay focused and be obedient to God....

It is almost midnight...but, I wanted to stop in and let you all know that I am still alive! lol

I will try and keep you updated on the progress of the book and .....

I almost forgot to tell you all....

I GOT A NEW JOB!!!!

I WORK FOR EDWARD JONES!!!

YES! IT TOOK ME THREE MONTHS TO GET IT! BUT, I AM NOW WORKING FOR THE COMPANY!!!

I LOVE IT!!! THE PEOPLE ARE WONDERFUL!

LESS STRESS AND CLOSER TO HOME...

WHO COULD ASK FOR ANYTHING BETTER?!

God bless you all!

*hugs*

Diana Joy

OMGoodness!!! lol

2007-08-04T18:58:00.000-07:00

Okay guys!
My new freind Buffy just posted this on her blog!!!!
I'm at work now (working on the book) :)
Sara and I have been laughing at this!!!
So, sorry buffy,
but, I had to steal it!!! lol
Got to get back to work!

Once again I am out of work :p

2007-07-24T12:53:00.000-07:00

Okay guys...
I'm sorry I haven't posted much lately.
I am out of work until July 30th. They are messing around with my meds (for epilepsy) so they don't want me driving.....SO HERE I AM CLEANING THE HOUSE, PAINTING, AND ....OH YEAH...ON THE COMPUTER! LOL
I have decided to get all detailed cleaning done....fix all the plumbing, and walls (one of my daughters still has a bad temper and will occasionally put her fist through one of the walls ).
Then I hope to relax on Friday =)...
So by Monday I will be focused on work and not what needs to be done at home :D
I came across this video while I was updating my myspace and I just had to put it on my blog :) My daughter Gena was on leave (from the Marines) and left for Japan a couple of days ago. I thought this was
sooooo powerful!! I just had to share it with you all!!!!

He's Coming Home - Military Video

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God bless you all!
Got to get back to cleaning :p
Diana Joy

Are you left or right brained?? Check it out?

2007-07-22T11:22:00.000-07:00

Okay...
I have to admit I was surfing my friends blogs and I came across this.
I thought it was really cool....
So, I tried it out....
Test your self and see which side of the brain you are...

You Are 45% Left Brained, 55% Right Brained

The left side of your brain controls verbal ability, attention to detail, and reasoning.
Left brained people are good at communication and persuading others.
If you're left brained, you are likely good at math and logic.
Your left brain prefers dogs, reading, and quiet.

The right side of your brain is all about creativity and flexibility.
Daring and intuitive, right brained people see the world in their unique way.
If you're right brained, you likely have a talent for creative writing and art.
Your right brain prefers day dreaming, philosophy, and sports.

http://www.blogthings.com/areyourightorleftbrainedquiz/">Are You Right or Left Brained?

Cute Kids

2007-06-30T22:18:00.001-07:00

I love this video! Check out the George Bush face! lol
I think I am now getting addicted to youtube!!! lol
Alyssa and I have been watching youtube over an hour =) Enjoy!!!

Britains Got Talent - A Star Is Born

2007-06-28T17:02:00.001-07:00

OMGoodness!!!
My hubby showed me this yesterday and I thought it would make a perfect post....what a brave man :)

Britain's Got Talent- Connie

2007-06-28T16:55:00.001-07:00

What a little Princess!!!

Another day....Another dollar?.....

2007-06-22T22:22:00.000-07:00

Hey Everyone!
First off, I want to introduce a new fellow blogger
Please stop by and say, "Hi"
If you were here earlier....she just changed it!
http://runwithdogs.blogspot.com/
Tell her Diana Joy sent you :) lol

My week has been crazy!I am struggling with my job. I feel like I shouldn't be whining because when I interviewed for the job my boss told me that he didn't want to hire me because I would be bored out of my mind and want to quit within six months....So, I tried to convince him that he was wrong....But, guess what?...I'M BORED OUT OF MY MIND!!!!!!! There is a problem....I can't quit! I just love the people I work with. My co-workers and I spend so much time laughing, goofing off....crying together....and even praying. And...oh yeah...we also work! lol Who would of thought that a job would be more than just an income.....Most of you know me through e-mail, speaking engagements, networking, church,....or through my book and the unseen child foundation. Over the last year I have found that when you work full time it has been impossible to hide behind a cause, a mission, a book or a computer.....I have come to realize that when you spend 8-10 hours a day with someone....they become your family. And all the good, bad and ugly is exposed for the world to see :p Before this job it took a great deal of energy to be professional just attending church, or meetings for my special needs children, ...but, to go to work and maintain that togetherness for weeks on end!!! MAN!!! At times I think I'm going to lose my mind!!! I have recovered physically from the heart-attack... and I can feel myself healing from the emotional scars. The rage my children have deep inside them is slowly dissipating with each day that I am able to get up and go to work. Even though the fear of losing me still lingers in their eyes...I now see hope overwhelmingly present in their eyes as they chatter of all the details of their day....My daughter has this tradition of reading the bible, talking with us, and then praying before bed.
When my husband and I bow our heads to pray, Savannah will usually go through each member of our family....which can be very long depending on the day...lol But, lately I will hear our youngest say, "Mommy, what's that man's name? The one from your work that has cancer?"Or, "Mommy we need to pray for your friend (from work) who was crying on the phone on fathers day"
Also, she would whisper,"Daddy, can we ask Jesus to help mommy's friend get better?...She's been sick and mommy hasn't seen her at work for two whole days....." You can tell my daughter is like her mother when she prayed, "Thank you God for the new baby girl that was born last week....(my co-workers wife had a beautiful baby girl:)....
As I sat down to do a post tonight I was determined to write about all the frustrations of work...(without names of course) lol hahahahahaha
But, now I am just thankful that God has given me the opportunity to have such wonderful people in my life....
I also thank my co-workers for their support with this book, my children, and the day-to-day moans and groans! lol
And...thanks to my friend from work who is always willing to turn on her instant message so as to rescue me from pure boredom :) Thanks Lyss! hehehehehe!
I need to go to sleep....
I'm sure I will regret this post by morning...
I started off this post with "Another day...Another dollar?...."
So, I will finish with, "Please pray that God gives me a little more of those dollars and alot less of those days...K? I'm looking a little too old lately!" hahahahahaha!

God bless!
Diana Joy

I love this video! One Voice!

2007-06-17T18:09:00.000-07:00

One Voice

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Sorry I haven't blogged much lately....But, with Savannah going to bible camp this week and Alyssa leaving for Colorado Springs with a friend for a week...I have had no time left to write. I want to share with you all this video. This young boy is just one voice.....Boy what a voice he has!!!! Please continue to pray for me.....I'm still hurting......God is using this time to teach me soooo much...I just need to remind myself that the deepest pain can bring the deepest joy. Thanks so much for all your prayers and support....Please know that even though you don't see my post....doesn't mean I haven't seen yours :)

God bless you all!

Diana Joy

I now have a myspace!

2007-06-14T04:52:00.000-07:00

I know ....
It is soooo silly...
The very thing that I was told not to do....
I DID! LOL
I am working on a myspace and it has been a blast :O
I'm sorry I haven't posted lately. It has been rough. I have a personal situation that continues to overwhelm me.
The good news is that I am working on my book a couple of times a week.
Sara (my editor) is so kind and patient.
I really believe this book couldn't be possible without all of my special friends...
Thanks everyone!
Well, I have got to get to work :p
God bless you all!
Diana Joy
BTW
I can't wait to hear the good news 4??!!!

http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=76161918

tell me if you have stopped by :)

2007-06-14T04:31:00.000-07:00

Savannah's Field day at school!!!!

2007-05-20T18:27:00.000-07:00

I thought you all might want to see Savannah's pictures from friday :)
I had so much fun watching my girl finish her fourth grade year with her best buddies....
I hope you enjoy this as much as we did :)

Happy Mothers Day Dano!!!!

2007-05-13T12:07:00.000-07:00

Happy Mothers Day Josiah & Abby!!!

2007-05-12T22:11:00.000-07:00

Dave and I decided that today we would attack some of the tasks around the house. He was given the bad end of the stick. He got stuck mowing the lawn and I was given the opportunity to look through old boxes and start eliminating all the unwanted junk.

Of course I decided to attack the picture boxes first :) hehehehe!
I found this picture of Dave and Josiah standing outside of our hotel room. Isn't it cute how Josiah thought he was just as big as his old man?!....lol Don't ya think they kinda even look alike?

Then there were the years of the Ninja Turtles! Here he was when he began to gain some incredible strength. His Ninja Turtle outfit used to somehow make him jump off couches, coffee tables, or once caused him to jump off the kitchen table! My baby boy was growing up......
It wasn't soon after he had been an official Ninja Turtle that his baby sister came along......
So, I ask you, "Doesn't he look proud to be a big brother?"

Looks can be deceiving...

Alyssa Gayle screamed 24-7!!! But, he stayed patient with her......

And it was a good thing he is so forgiving....

It wasn't long after Alyssa was three and we were adopting girls.....

He would soon be the only brother to seven sisters! It's a good thing he had all that Ninja training young huh?! lol
Here he is giving his sister Alyssa a tender kiss. She was almost 2 and he was 9 at the time. That was when she was too young to talk back......

By the fourth grade Josiah was not so compassionate....

He gave me this Mothers Day card that year and well...

His words tell it like it was......

I wonder what he scribbled out?? I love the fact that he didn't want to babysit her when he was old enough to! hahahahahaha! Happy Mothers Day to all the mothers out there! My last post was to my daughters.....this one is for my only son Josiah and his soon-to-be wife Abby :) Abby, this is proof that your new hubby will be a patient husband and a wonderful father!!!!

Love,

Mom!

Happy Mothers Day everyone!!!!

2007-05-11T15:06:00.000-07:00

Happy Mothers Day everyone!
I hope you all enjoy your special day with you children. I will take time to look through the pictures over the many years. I hope to have them up tomorrow. But, until then.....
I found this video to represent daughters:) I hope you all will enjoy this song as much as I have.....
"In my Daughters Eyes" by Martina McBride....

God bless!

Diana Joy

I have one more request...

Please pray for Alyssa. She is wanting to become a journalist and travel around the world to reach out to orphans. Pray that over the summer we can find a program that will help encourage her to follow her dreams:)
Also, pray for me as I am now looking for a new job.
Thanks so much for all your love and support :)

Much love!
DJ

I found Alyssa's blog! Here is her first post:)

2007-05-06T18:00:00.000-07:00

I've tried writing and rewriting over and over again how to start this but I keep finding myself pressing the backspace button. I can't seem to find any words to express how I feel about this.Its caught somewhere between confusion, anger, and sadness.I've always wanted to make a difference and find a way to change the world. I read the book First They Killed My Father, seen the movies Invisible Children, Hotel Rwanda, and many others. I've also looked up pictures like the ones throughout this blog [all pictures credit to Maciej Dakowicz.] and one question continues to scream in my mind: "Why?"

Why must they be born into a world of poverty and pain?

Why should they be raised in an orphanage without parents and some without brothers or sisters?

Why should they fight everyday for peace?

Why must they suffer?

So, I decided that I was finally going to do something about it. I've finally figured out how. This summer I'm working on having a HUGE bake sale. My best friends from my school are helping me make food. My friends from other schools are also not only making food they are spreading the word. One of my friends, Nicole is even having her own bake sale to raise money. All the money that I earn for this bake sale will be going to an organization called Orphans First. I'm so excited for this. I've been looking forward to it for a long time now. I hope it all works out.

For those of you who have visited my mom's blog and seen my writing about a young boy named Ry Ra. Yes, I wrote that story all by myself. Yes, I based it on a real little boy. No, I never knew the little boy. I got the story from a few photographs. One of them is shown on the left, he's the little boy standing up catching rain water in the bottle to drink.

The only thing I knew about this little boy when I wrote that story was:
His name is Ry Ra.
He was five-years-old when the picture was taken. [I believe it was taken in '05 or '06.]
He had a problem with his hips and pelvis and due to this, he was unable to walk properly.
If he lived in a country like America, he'd be able to have the surgery and walk normally.He lives[lived?] in an orphanage in Cambodia.

The rest of the story was made up by me.I didn't choose Ry Ra for any special reason other then that he was just one of the millions of children who live in poverty around the world.

One of the many children that deserve more.

Here is Alyssa's blog! hehehehe!

http://alyssasbloggg.blogspot.com/

Alyssa Gayle and her little boy Ry Ra.......

2007-05-05T22:11:00.000-07:00

Last night I found my daughter Alyssa Gayle staring at the computer screen. I was just about to yell at her to get to bed, when I realized that she was doing homework. My daughter was given and assignment to write a paper titled "How can one person make a difference in the lives of many?" Of course Alyssa always jumps at the chance to talk about her dream of running her own non-profit organization....only overseas! So, naturally I assumed this was a "How to do" paper. But, she wouldn't let me see what she was typing! She quickly snapped at me and said, "No mom! Go away!"
So, as I was leaving I noticed she was looking through a site of one of her favorite photographers. This site is filled with so many pictures...and most of them are pictures of orphans. As I watched her face pressed to the computer screen it reminded me of my adopted father Gale Fister. He is just a pastor of a small town....
But, he is the biggest man in the world to me. He has a passion to save as many children as he can before he faces Jesus. I am soooo happy that I named Alyssa Gayle after him :)
This morning I found this excerpt of the paper she was working on...
I found just this one sheet of paper sitting on my desk. It wasn't a "How to do" paper at all....
In just a few paragraphs my daughter had taken me to the world of a small orphaned boy...
Here is just a small portion of what the paper said....
It has not been edited by me or by her teacher....

I walk along the dirt road and stare at my black flip flops as I feel them lightly slap the back of my feet. My hands shake and my heart pounds in my throat. On the outside, I seem calm and collected, but on the inside I feel as through I'm going to collapse. I walk silently up the gray wooden steps, then turn into the large hallway that extends throughout the house. As I walk down the hallway I am cautious of every step I take, fearing of what may happen if one of the floorboards gives in. The house smells of dirt and decaying wood. Although, the faint noise of children laughing is present, it seems as though all is dead....
I scan the room quickly, looking for one little boy. My heart beats faster as I look at the faces of the many orphaned children, seeing many familiar faces, although none are of the one child I'm looking for. A small tug at the edge of my pant leg brings my attention towards the floor. A sigh of relief escapes my mouth as I am greeted by a pair of large brown eyes. I reach down to hold 5-year-old "Ry Ra". I wrap my arms tightly around his small fragile body. I run my fingers through his thinnning hair (which is gray from the dirt that he and his friends love to play in). My emotions overthrow me as he wraps his tiny, thin fingers around the neck of my shirt. Tears of happiness well in my eyes as I realize he is now safe and alive.....

That's all that was on the paper!!!! I am so frustrated! Alyssa Gayle is babysitting for her sister tonight and I will not hear the rest of the story until sometime late tomorrow :(

Here is a few of the many pictures Alyssa has collected for "Diana Joy's myspace"...

Bring your daughter to work day!!!

2007-04-27T14:33:00.000-07:00

Yesterday was "Bring your child to work day". So, naturally Savannah announced that it was her turn to go. I am so thankful that my boss said that it was fine :)
Here she is taking over her new job as Division Assistant....

Doesn't she look like a proffessional?! My baby girl is "all grown up".

I wanted to tell you all that I am so sorry I haven't posted this week. I was talking with my friend the other day and we were adding up stresses in my life....
All I have to say is, "It doesn't look good!" But, it amazes me that everything I experience through the week is another post that I could write about....
If I just had the time!
With each new experience, I find myself saying "Oh! I am going to post about this tonight." Unfortunately, I am so tired by the time I get home from work that unless I post at work....there won't be a post:(
But, since this was about work I felt that it was very appropriate to post this at work! hehehehehe! Savannah's day at work is one that I will treasure for life!!!
Much love until next time!

Be sure a press, "Stop" on the side bar video =)

2007-04-15T11:32:00.000-07:00

The video on the side bar can be turned off while you watch other video's =)
Have a wonderful Sunday everyone!
Yeah!!! I'm going swimming with my kids today and a movie with my daughter Alyssa tonight!!! I HAVE BEEN BLESSED!
God bless!
Diana Joy

I Have Been Blessed!!!!!!

2007-04-15T10:43:00.000-07:00

Last night I went to a dinner party for work. It was a wonderful party....
But, as I left I found myself missing something. I couldn't figure out what the "something" was until today. Well, this morning I have come to the conclusion that life (for me & my husband) is all about my family! That's it! My children bring so much joy that I could scream from the roof tops "THANK YOU LORD!!!! I know that is a little dramatic...but, if you knew me...it could happen! hahahahaha!
The Lord, my husband, children and grandchildren (young & old) make me complete! As I thought of something to blog about today, I found myself sorting out all the MANY pictures of my children....(and thinking of all the parties I have been to recently without a camera..hehehe!) Okay! Then I was reminded of how many people get bored with parents who show a ton of pictures of their children... However, I just want you all to note that I could sit for hours looking at anyones pictures :)
When I went to the party last night I found myself running to the wall of pictures on my friends wall. Throughout the night I kept coming back to them just to capture the joy in their eyes. My daughter Alyssa wants to be a photographer. I have always told her that a simple picture freezes a time in a persons life that no one can ever create again.
To make this short, I have to come to the conclusion that God has blessed me with a wonderful family and to not share that with others would be wrong. I was watching a interview with Martina McBride and she said just that! When God blesses you with something....your whole worlds revolves around that gift. She continued to talk about how she feels it is wrong to not share your joy with others....Martina said that it is important to share with others what God has blessed you with...and for me it's my family!
So, today here is a video of Martina McBride singing "I Have Been Blessed"......

I Have Been Blessed

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Yeah! It's party time at Grandma's!!!!

2007-04-13T14:28:00.000-07:00

It's party time at Grandma's!!!
So I ask you, "Does he look scary?" Some of the kids thought so at first. It was James 2nd birthday and we decided to make it special by hiring a clown. I thought I would share with you our fun day! It was only a short time and the kids wanted to see who this new friend was....

Josiah was one of the first to jump up and get his face done =) My oh my! What a brave boy!

One would think he was getting his tooth pulled! lol

"Look at me Grandma! I'm a puppy! Just like Buddy! (our dog) hahahaha!

Alyanna (granddaughter) was too shy to get her face painted....Okay...who's next?

Gabryel couldn't wait! He hopped up and wanted to be a clown....He kinda looks like one...don't ya think? hehehehehe

Josh yells, "Look at me! I'm spider man!" All I could do was agree.....

Savannah wanted to look like our cat "Princess". She does look like a "Princess"...

Not James.....He wanted nothing to do with this entire game! Micah couldn't keep him in the chair! hahahahahaha! Party pooper!

Not Elyjah! "Guess what I am grandma?" Can anyone guess? hehehehe

So the day continued and the clown had everyones attention.....James was so excited he could hardly sit down =)

The girls got cleaned up and had to end the party looking pretty!

I hope you all enjoyed our party??!! We sure did! hehehehehe

The newest member to our family!!!

2007-04-04T12:22:00.000-07:00

Mr. & Mrs. Albertsen!!!!

I have wonderful news!

There is a new addition to our family!

Her name is Abby Lehman. It brings me to tears to see them.

Josiah is no longer my boy. He is now a man :0

As I look at him I wonder, "Where did all the years go?" It seems like yesterday and he was jumping off the couch like Superman. I remember taking Josiah to the store and walking straight over to the toy section and then hearing the sound of his voice as he discovered that there was a new Ninja Turtle.....Can any of you relate? Or am I really that old?! LOL

Abby will be a wonderful (and much needed) member to our family. The date is set for sometime in May 2008.

Thanks for all your prayers =)

2007-04-04T09:51:00.000-07:00

Hi Everyone!
I'm doing much better...thanks Diane for posting an update =) As most of you know I was in the hospital due to some stomach problems (and of course an abnormal EKG). I will be going into the Hospital on Thursday to undergo some more tests. The Doctors will be checking for ulcers and an upper hernia. The inflamation caused an abnormal heart beat. But, everything seems to be beating regular now...
I know what you all must be thinking....
"Now what Diana?" It is so frustrating to have something always giving out in your body:(
One thing is for sure.....
I NOW FEEL OLD!!!!
Thanks so much for all of your prayers :)
Please continue?!
God bless!
Diana Joy

Diana Joy is in the hospital....please pray =)

2007-03-26T18:11:00.000-07:00

Hello everyone:) Please pray for Diana Joy's quick release from the hospital. She will be taking some more tests tomorrow and hopefully go home. She looks happy as always and the laughter is always with her. Comments with words of wisdom are welcome and greatly appriciated.
"'For I know the plans I have for you,' declares the Lord, 'plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.'" (Jeremiah 29:11)
"The LORD is my shepherd, I shall not want. He makes me lie down in green pastures; He leads me beside quiet waters. He restores my soul." (Psalm 23:1-3)
We all meet the people in our lives for a reason and everything happens for that reason these are lessons in our lives to make us stronger in the plan. God has blessed us with Diana Joy, the mission and her book. May God strengthen her weakened heart and take the pain away for she will show us the unseen child and always lead the way!! God Bless!! Diane Maes.....

Hurry Grandma Hurry!!!

2007-03-19T16:15:00.000-07:00

Yes! It is over 70 here! So, once again it is time for Grandma to take the kids to the park for some big time fun =) I don't know who had more fun....
the kids.....
Or their grandma! hehehehehe!
Here I am with Elijah on the top of the monkey bars.....

James didn't look as happy to be so far up...lolHere is a poem that Savannah gave me just the other day. I thought it would fit for our wonderful weekend!

Hurry Grandma Hurry

Hurry Grandma hurry.

Grandma look at me,

I'm right side up, I'm upside down,

I'm swinging from a tree.

I'm jumping like a squirrel,

I think that I can fly-

Grandma please don't worry,

Grandma please don't cry....

Hurry Grandma hurry,

see what I can do,

I'm roller-skating backwards

across the avenue.

Here's a luscious little bug,

I think I'll take a bite-

Grandma stop your screaming,

everything's all right...

Grandma hurry, Grandma watch me please,

I'm climbing up a ladder,

I'm dangling by my knees.

I found this giant spider

that was stuck in gobs of paint,

Grandma take a closer look-

whatever made you faint? I hope you all enjoyed our pictures! I have some big news to post tommorrow...

Here's a hint....

We are going to have a new member in the Albertsen household....

Stay tuned.....

"One more broken heart"

2007-03-03T11:58:00.000-08:00

Today is Saturday and it is time for me to reflect on my week. I am forced to look back on what I have accomplished and what I have yet to do. This morning I was attempting to blog. Yet, nothing was coming to my mind. So, naturally I assumed there would be no post. As I sat checking my mail and one e-mail stood out. It was sent by an old friend. The words were, "Are you still writing?" That's it! Just those four words!!! So, to you my friend the answer is, “No”. Life got so busy that the commitment I made to God was forgotten. Yes, the book is written...but, the process of editing another chapter had not happened. (Once again I came up with reasons why I couldn’t take time away). Thanks for reminding me what I need today.
I also need to confess that this morning (before I answered my mail) I turned on my music and started to catch up on the lives of all my fellow bloggers.. As the music began I was expecting to hear "Reba" or "Susie Luchsinger" (Reba's sister)...But, the band, "Point Of Grace" was playing. I don't recall when it was put in the disk player. It is obvious God sure did!
So...to all....I will work today on my book:)
Here is the song.....

By Point Of Grace

I see people merely existing
I see vacant eyes full of pain
Lives broken and abused
Hiding hearts scarred and stained

CHORUS:
As long as there's one more broken heart
One more crying soul, I'll go
And I will love them, Jesus
As long as there's one more needing You
One more I can show Your love
As long as there's one more broken heart

Could it be that I could make a difference
If I care the way You care for me?
When they look into my eyes
Let it be Your eyes they see

CHORUS

Let me show them that You love them
Won't You help me bring them in?
Lord, I promise You again...

CHORUS

One more broken heart
One more broken heart
One more broken heart

As I came to the conclusion of this post, I received an e-mail from an unknown young woman. She shared with me her heart wrenching story. I stopped and prayed for her safety and for her to know that she is loved unconditionally. Then I whispered, “Okay God! I got it!”

Due to privacy....I will not expose her name (or her story)....
I just want to let her know that I care!
But, most of all God cares! He feels your pain!
Feel free to continue to e-mail me.
I dedicate this song to you new friend.....

By Point Of Grace

She had her father's blue eyes
He left home before she arrived
Mama named her Grace
Just getting by on their own
When Grace was 15 she ran from home
One December day
Grace is lost and alone in a world as cold as stone
God is counting on us to reach her with His love

CHORUS:
It's all about saving Grace
All about living love
Being Jesus to those He came to save
Sharing life and giving our own away
it's all about serving God
All about saving Grace
She never darkened the door of any church
She would say, "What for...no one there would care for me" We have to go where she lives Simply show her who Jesus is Watch Him set her free For grace flows down from above and faith requires a selfless love For a world that's dying to see the hope in you in me

CHORUS

There are countless millions just like Grace Who need a merciful embrace They won't believe our God is real Until they feel His touch

God loves you my dear. I know sometimes you may feel like you are alone....
You will never be! It’s Gods promise.....

“God comforts us in all afflictions so that we may be able to comfort them which are in trouble, by the comfort wherewith we ourselves are comforted of God”
2 Corinthians 1: 3-4

God bless!
Diana Joy Albertsen

Okay Everyone!!! This is for all the girls from 13 to 42!!!!

2007-03-01T17:57:00.000-08:00

I have had this song in my mind all day! Here is Martina McBride in "This Ones For The Girls!" Enjoy!!

This if for all the Girls....

2007-02-27T17:50:00.000-08:00

Yes...another chain letter! It's not that I don't like chain letters...
I just don't have the time to continue passing them along.
But, I want you all to know that I do read them.....
Most of them anyway...hehehehe!
(HINT!) I know a few of my friends need to read this today....

Also, I would like to introduce you all to a wonderful new friend :) Karen could use some support from all you wonderful bloggers out there! http://anewbegining1.blogspot.com/ I have been touched deeply by her testimony of love and committment to overcome all that life has thrown her way....
This is for all the girls!!!!!

What's so poignant about this picture?

It shows a line of little girls holding hands facing the immensity of ocean waves.
Alone they might be washed away, but together they stand strong.
Thank you each for holding my hand somewhere along the way when I was facing a wave of my own. I hope you will reach for my hand when your own wave threatens.
All of us girls..
Old and young...
Near and far...
Hold special memories of good times we've shared.
We've had our share of hard times when our friends were there to make us feel better.
We've shared...
our hearts
our time
our secrets
our fears
our hopes
and our dreams.
Let us never break the chain of friends....

This chain letter is to all my special friends from around the world. Your words of encouragement help me daily.

So I say to you all...

"Thanks Sisters! May God hold you safe in his arms until we see each other again!"

(or for some of you).....

until we meet for the first time :) hehehehe

God bless,

Diana Joy

Martina McBrides song "Anyway"

2007-02-25T08:16:00.000-08:00

Here is the video I have been telling you all about. I hope you all enjoy it as much as I do!

I'll do it anyway!!!

2007-02-17T09:43:00.000-08:00

Hi everyone!

Here it is Saturday again. The week has gone by so quickly! When I woke up (at 4:30 a.m.) I turned on the light and began my daily routine of preparing for my usual week day....It wasn't until I was wide awake that I realized it was Saturday! LOL
I quickly jumped back in bed, put the blankets over my head and attempted to go to fall back into my dreamland! I was surprised when I woke up at 8:30am. I never sleep 12 hours! The busy week really did take a toll on my body. My week consists of working 9 hours, writing (the book with Sara) and taking care of the kids. Oh yeah and the 4 hours commuting to and from work. There never seems to be enough time in the day. On Saturday I make it a point to blog. I always try to contain all the details of my week in one post...however; it never seems to happen :).. we’ll see if I am successful today....

On Thursday night I was busy working on the book and these words kept repeating in my mind. "God is great, but sometimes life ain't good
And when I pray it doesn't always turn out like I think it should,
But I do it anyway, I do it anyway!!!"

In the past year I have struggled writing because of what others thought of me. But, I have come to realize that it is not important how others view me, but what God has requested of me. Once again the truth that I must obey God has been a reality I now accept...
That is until my strong will takes hold again :(

A friend drew this for me a few years ago...and yes it is her view of me as a child!

Have you ever gone through a period of time in which you were convinced if you refused what God requests, that somehow He would give in and let you live your life the way you truly believed was best? Over the last six months I have (once again) refused to yield to God. Yet, everyday I would pray, “God please help me get out of this situation, and I will do what ever you ask of me”. Then as soon as the coast was clear, I would take over the wheel of my life and continue down the road that I had chosen. Oh man! I just realized my children aren’t like me...I am like them!!! How embarrassing! I am an adult, yet, I continue to act like a child!
It is a good thing God has a sense of humor! LOL

But, after struggling with the bills, the kids disobeying, constant nightmares and many pouts of the stomach flu, I am going to do what He has requested. I am now working on my book and feeling a sense of relief!!! I know what you all must be thinking, “Here she goes again, talking about writing the book...making one promise after another...” But, with each new chapter I feel like screaming, “Yes! Thanks Lord! I knew we could do it God!”
I am (once again) aware that this book is not to please anyone here on earth; it is written because God sees those that need to be healed.....Those that are lonely, hopeless, and desperate for acceptance. This book is for the one person who happens to come across this blog or browse to the very back of a library. For those that refuse to pick up a bible because they feel ashamed may find hope through the pages I type...then see that it is safe to pick up the bible and come to the realization that God was there throughout the most difficult times of their lives.

Well, enough of the talk about the book...
This song is so inspiring! I can’t wait for it to come out in the store!!!!

Martina McBride

You can spend your whole life building something from nothing
One storm can come and blow it all away
Build it anyway
You can chase a dream that seems so out of reach and you know it might not ever come your way
Dream it anyway

Chorus:
God is great, but sometimes life ain't good
And when I pray it doesn't always turn out like I think it should
But I do it anyway, I do it anyway

This world's gone crazy and it's hard to believe that tomorrow will be better than today
Believe it anyway
You can love someone with all your heart, for all the right reasons, and in a moment they can choose to walk away
Love them anyway

Chorus:
God is great, but sometimes life ain't good
And when I pray it doesn't always turn out like I think it should
But I do it anyway, I do it anyway

You can pour your soul out singing a song you believe in that tomorrow they'll forget you ever sang
Sing it anyway, sing it anyway

I sing, I dream, I love, anyway
God is great, but sometimes life ain't good
And when I pray it doesn't always turn out like I think it should
But I do it anyway, I do it anyway!

Do it for God! I pray you find strength in these words :)

God bless!

The sun is shining and so am I !!!

2007-02-10T11:54:00.000-08:00

My computer keeps freezing! I wanted to share some of what is going on with me (in the last post). Here is the verse that inspired the last post (Dedication to Gale). "Commit everything you do to the Lord. Trust him to help you do it, and he will."(Psalm 37:5)
I want everyone to know that I am now working on the book on Tues. & Wed. I feel that a big part of me is healing.
Either blogger isn't working today or it is my system. Because my posts are not getting published.
Also, I can't download any wonderful pictures :( I will try again later...
I have missed everyone sooooo much! Savannah and I are going out to the movies for some mother and daughter time :)
It amazes me how working on the book is once again helping me heal. Thank you for all your prayers!!! BTW 4 what its worth! Thank you for your support and for mentioning me in your last post:) It was so helpful to see what I was actually doing...hiding from my fears..and my pain. I had lost the meaning of who I was writing for and why....You always seem to uplift others despite the pain you are going through. Please know that I pray for you daily:) I know I haven't been very supportive lately....I'm sorry for that. Now that I have adjusted to the long hours at work, I should be able to reach out to others :) And support them :)
I have to introduce you all to my new friends from China. Vicky and Joey have been writing me for some time. It has been such a joy to know that someone sooooo far away has been able to teach me so much. I can't seem to find the links and add them to my blog...perhaps later...
Work is going great. I am definitely learning what it is like to work in a large office with a ton of people. I must say that life is never boring:D I believe that going to work was just what I needed to inspire me to write again. Everyone is so supportive! The sun is shining here in Denver! Just as the earth starts to bloom, I feel a part of me coming back to life. God is an awesome God! Thanks so much for staying faithful to my blog and me :)
Let's see if this post actually gets published....
God bless you all!
BTW
Please pray for a fellow blogger? I just want her to know that I am sorry for being so busy and not posting much lately. I do not want to offend anyone. My goal is just like other bloggers...to share what is happening in my life...The good and the bad. I never want to appear selfish or not caring....Please forgive me :)
Bye for now...
Let's see if this get's published...hehehe

2007-02-10T10:57:00.001-08:00

These words were written when I realized God had a plan for my life. I have never forgotten the plan...but, the pain of losing the most important man in my life has caused me to run from what the Lord has requested of me....Please pray as I return to the path that He has set for my life. Also, pray for me to find healing with each word I type...
These words are written for you Gale....

I dedicate this book to a special person who had a mission. This is a man who looked at a small, nappy haired, angry child and felt her pain. Through one man, many unseen children have been seen. I need to say, “Thank you Gale for loving me!” You have and will continue to be a reminder of the true picture of Christ. You judge no one and welcome all into your house. To this day the first question you ask me is always the same, “How’s your mother, and the rest of your siblings"? Your unconditional acceptance is the gift you have passed down to me. With honor, I will embrace all the lessons I have learned. I pray I can walk in the footsteps you have walked. Through working with many unseen children, I can only imagine the pain you must have felt when I refused your love or trust through the years. The many nights when it would have been better to sleep in a warm bed, I would choose to be cold and alone. I witnessed your tears when the attempt to rescue me from more abuse was impossible. You waited patiently for me to return when I ran from you. You hurt for me when I refused to tell the secrets that could have stopped the abuse. Gale, I want you to know that I am thankful for many attempts to protect me. Love was always a feeling I longed for, but never thought I deserved. But the love in your eyes would replace the doubt I had in myself. I now know that you honored my fears and never gave me any reason to question your unconditional love. Your smile caused me to feel pure and special. With your eyes, I felt hope in my future. But, as I would walk away that feeling would soon be forgotten. After twenty five years you were still there. So much time would come and go, but yet the longing to see the acceptance in your eyes would continue to lie deep within me. When I was facing death at thirty eight, I ran to you. Feeling embarrassed by my cane, and my small fragile body, I struggled to walk up the sidewalk of the same blue house, once again you were there. This was one of the very few times in my life I aloud you to hold me. As your warms arms comforted me I felt hope again.

At this time in your life, as you watch your wife slip away, I see your pain and feel your loss. Tears swell up inside me as I see your helplessness. I respect you and know the pain is too hard to put into words. I see your sorrow and will now be there. I want to remind you of the words you spoke to me on the day when I felt alone with my illness and ran to you for comfort. I felt hopeless as I dropped my cane. You quickly wrapped your arms around me and said with tears in your eyes," Diana, if you go before I do, then wait for me at the gate of Heaven? If I go before you, I will be there to welcome you with open arms". All the pain will be forgotten and we will rejoice!" Gale you are the father I have always wanted and I say this to you. I know you will be leaving me here on this earth, but I rejoice at the moment you greet me in Heaven!!! It is because you obeyed God and were committed to look into the eyes of the unseen children of this world that I am committed that through this one unseen child your mission will continue....

2007-02-10T10:57:00.000-08:00

Sleepy Puppy

2007-02-01T11:41:00.000-08:00

... sleepy me.